Why did this happen?

clueless65 · #1 07-05-2008

Hey, everyone. I just registered to this forum because i'm kind of new to the whole sex thing and I have so many questions lol
My first question is when I was having sex with my friend I felt like I had to pee really badly so I kinda stopped him (I know that was probably wrong but I didn't think I could hold it in any longer) and when I went to the bathroom nothing came out so it felt like I had to go pee but i really didn't have to. Is this a normal thing durning sex? because it has happened more than once although, this was the first time i have stopped him. And do you think it made him upset?
thanks for any answers.

Melissalicious · #2 07-05-2008

Sounds like you were building up to an orgasm. If I feel that "peeing" sensation and don't go till I "cum" I feel like I have to pee for hours but can't pee to save my life! Next time just keep going and don't worry about it most likely you won't pee, but if you keep going you may "gush" or "squirt!" As for him being mad, hmmm IDK it's possible but you were the one who was there and have a better idea than us. Have fun with it!!!

Kujocade · #3 07-07-2008

I sometimes get that needing to pee feeling, if you just keep going then everything will be fine, you won't pee on him.
If you explained a reason for stopping him i'm sure it will be ok because he will know he wasn't doing anything wrong and you weren't upset at him because he wasn't very good or something.

unalteredone · #4 07-07-2008

That happens to me a lot. It's said that it is a sign that you are able to ejaculate... but i unfortunately haven't achieved that yet... but i'm working on it!

skydiver · #5 07-07-2008

Don't stop, just keep going....if you pee you pee...life goes on...

him and enjoy the mind blowing orgasm.

frizzo · #6 07-08-2008

my wife does this also, when the action is hot, she gets a little antsy and tells me shes going to pee herself. Usually not soon after she will cum and sometimes she does pee herself, it's not squirt as you can smell it, and she has squirted before.

I keep telling her, pee on me I don't care, if it's pee or squirt just spray me baby!!

Gregorio · #7 07-08-2008

It seems to me that you have never masturbated or masturbated to an orgasm. You need to do this sometime by yourself when it is quiet so your mind/body can adjust to these feelings which are apparently new to you. Make sure you pee right before.

B A · #8 07-08-2008

What type of sex? If he was sucking you he may have been sucking too hard. I have had that make me feel like I needed to pee. Most men suck better then most women. The only mistake they make is sucking too hard.

DanielScott · #9 07-09-2008

I think the OP is a chick, BA...

Try relaxing, and just kind of "riding through it" the next time this happens. Maybe tell him to go slow, whatever. Just relax, and welcome the feeling or orgasm.

Not all orgasms feel like this (at least, that's my understanding) but this kind is apparently really, really good. I don't have a vagina so I can't comment on any personal experience though, just what girls I've been with have told me.

-Dan

Tent Pole · #10 07-09-2008

From what I've heard, the needing to pee sensation is a sign that you're nearing orgasm but can also squirt. Just let all inhibitions go and try it, it may surprise you and your partner! Most guys I know find squirting to be INCREDIBLY hot.

clueless65 · #11 07-11-2008

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Originally Posted by B A

What type of sex? If he was sucking you

No, he wasn't sucking me unfortunately lol.

sparklestar133 · #12 07-11-2008

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Originally Posted by skydiver

Don't stop, just keep going....if you pee you pee...life goes on...

him and enjoy the mind blowing orgasm.

agreed.

B A · #13 07-11-2008

Quote:

Originally Posted by DanielScott

I think the OP is a chick, BA...

Try relaxing, and just kind of "riding through it" the next time this happens. Maybe tell him to go slow, whatever. Just relax, and welcome the feeling or orgasm.

Not all orgasms feel like this (at least, that's my understanding) but this kind is apparently really, really good. I don't have a vagina so I can't comment on any personal experience though, just what girls I've been with have told me.

-Dan

I looked before I answered?? Must not have got to the top of the page? Sorry!:icon_scra :icon_scra

hotcandy · #14 07-11-2008

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Kalypso123 · #15 07-11-2008

its normal and good. next time let it fly,

and if you're lucky you'll have projectile ejaculation

qcumbr1 · #16 07-19-2008

That feeling to pee means your G-Spot is being stimulated. By all means keep going. That feeling to pee should go away and soon followed by a nice orgasm.

lostinthearmy02 · #17 07-19-2008

my $.02 squirters are hot

Kalypso123 · #18 07-19-2008

yes they are

icon_silhouette · #19 07-20-2008

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Originally Posted by Gregorio

It seems to me that you have never masturbated or masturbated to an orgasm. You need to do this sometime by yourself when it is quiet so your mind/body can adjust to these feelings which are apparently new to you. Make sure you pee right before.

id have to agree with this the more experience you get the more you can tell the difference between the feeling of needing to pee and having your gspot stimulated. and just dont worry about it.

but you shouldnt pee before sex, you should pee after to flush out any bacteria that have been pushed into the urethra and help prevent you from urine infections.