improving my sex

[sciongirl18]

I'm beginning to get bummed out with my sexual performance. My boyfriend always seems to be bored with our sex life because he is into kinky, BDSM type stuff and I have gotten really interested in it myself but can't think of anything I could try with him. I try watching videos to see if I can pick up anything but everything he likes is getting tied up and I have nothing to tie him up to.

When ever we have sex he is just kind of like "okay yeah that was nice." He doesnt say that or anything but thats how it seems and I really want to blow his mind!

Tips would be VERY helpful

[Beaucr]

You are totally the kind of girl that every guy wants (if you are a girl as it says your male in your profile- FYI)!!! The kind that truly wants to sexually please his guy- and takes the time to go out and research!!! You rule!

Ok, so one of the things that guys love to see is that their girl is as excited about sex as they are. Often guys are raised being the only ones comfortable enough to come out and say "tonight we are going to have sex in a public place" or "tonight I am going to tie you up, you with a candle, and then drip the wax on your naked body untill I get hard enough to you again!" If you decide on what you want- tell him and do it to him, and it will remind him that your an active member of your sexual team, and not just a quiet passanger along for the ride.

And us guys usually always love oral sex, so if you cannot think up any other activity for your first event- make it a special session of super long blowjob for him. You can make it have a "special twist" by doing it in a public place (movie theater, park bench, beach, car in a busy parking lot), or you can do it at home, but just in a special way (tie him up- dosent need to really be tied to anything, just tie his hands behind his back so your driving and he cannot touch you, or if you dont usually swallow- do it, or if you usually dont let him come on your face- do it). These things will remind him that you love him enough to want to evolve and change to please him- and that will totally turn him on, and let him know he can be more open about bringing ideas to you to try out- BECAUSE YOU LIKE SEX TOO!!!!

[sophiamalynn]

If you want to tie him up and have nothing to tie him to, the under the bed restraints are reasonably priced and work really well (trust me he wont get out ) and then he will have something to restrain you too. There are many things you could tie him up with like scarves, mens ties work well, you could even use a long sleeved shirt to do it(with the sleeves). You definetly dont have to tie him to something if he is sitting you just need to tie his arms behind his back. With him sitting and tied up you could tease him lightly by gently caressing his entire body with your hands slowly lead into a blowjob and then ride him while he is still sitting. You can also add things like a gag, sexy lingerie is always good preferably black, and a whip(for the inside of his thighs when he gets hard to quickly or whatever you want ) After you break the ice this way it should be alot easier to start talking to each other about what you really want sexually and what you would love to do to each other. One other thing whenever you do this to him you have to be really authoritive and let him know you are in charge and that he has no say, it makes it easier for me if i am really horny already so usually i will try and play with myself a little beforehand just to get me going

[Kalypso123]

start excercising,

fit bodies:
look more sexy
feel more sexy
and produce harder orgasms

[licker4450]

Try adding some light BDSM activites such as spanking. If this goes over well, you can try to increase it some by usig a spatula (one of my favorites) or even a paddle (pingpong paddles work well). Another terrific item is a riding bat, available at most places that sell equine supplies. They arent expensive yet can add wonderful sensations.

As was mentioned, tying up is a terrific way to enhance things. For foreplay, have him naked on the floor, hands tied behind his knees. It is a comfortable position for him to watch a movie because he can stay there a long period of time. Also, you can use him for whatever you want in that case.

Just a few ideas.

[bgb]

Candle wax should heat things up.