so im a lil new to this but i just want to see how it can help me
my girlfriend and i have been dating for three+ months now and i love her to death....she is just amazing and i am very happy to be with her
the only problem is that our sex life or lack of is stressful for the both of us...i am a very sexual person...i love everything about it and just sharing that feeling with another person is amazing, however she is basically terrified of sex the whole thought of it scares her to death and the risks of what could happen ruin the thought of it for her...weve fooled around a lot but nothing too serious...naturally this is tough on me "blue balls" and i just dont know what to do...its not even just the fact that we dont have sex but she doesnt do anything back...she doesnt expect anything from me but i just cant help it...i love pleasing someone else....its just a great feeling...but i get nothin back and it really sucks
i dont know what to do...should i just masterbate constently...cause that really wont work for me...and i dont want her to feel like she has to cause shes not comfortable with it...i dunno...any suggestions???