My wife and I have been trying to get into this lifestyle for sometime now, and last weekend we had our first encouter. We met up with a couple we had met off craigslist (I know kind of risky) but we did the face pics/phone verify thing first and make sure to work out signals if things weren't going ok on either end. They seemed nice enough but like us weren't experienced at all either, so as expected no one really knew what to do without it ending awkwardly. We all ended up playing strip dice men v.s. women, and before I knew it me and this other guy were the only ones naked. The girl seemed to be stalling and not really into the whole idea but kind of going along with it for his sake. At this point they started fondeling each other and so did we, which my wife and I both later agreed was very hot and we would have to try again with a more seasoned couple. So then the girls started blowing us guys. It sounds like things are really heating up right? Wrong. They decided they needed to shower for some reason leaving us along in the living room. after what seemed like an eternity we decided we'd had enough, got dressed and left. Kind of a disappointment but fun at the same time. If anyone wants to hear more as our adventures continue i'd be glad to keep you up to date!