I joined this site a few days ago but because the format is so different to the forums I have been used to it took me a while to work out how to get started. Viewing it on a cell phone did not make it easier either. So, as time goes on, I hope I get better at this and my entries become more fluid.
After waking up at 4am this morning and checking my mail, I decided to enter here and see what this site is all about. I joined a few days ago, but was using a cell phone, but it was difficult to get a clear impression. So, armed with a piping hot cup of tea and 2 rounds of toast, here I am. As this is my first blog it can only get better from here on in!
Just a bit of history
I moved to Johannesburg from the coast just under a year ago for businesses reasons, leaving our little business for my wife to run while I got established here. We have both been married twice before so although we were far apart, I was optimistic things would pan out. Our marriage was not the best, financials were bad as a result of the depression and other issues complicated things. Our relationship did not improve and the old adage “absence makes the heart …” certainly did not apply.
I have not cheated in any way and I wanted our relationship to succeed, but that was not to be. We have been together for 8 years and married for 3 of those, with the last 11 months being separated by 1,200km. Early this year it finally went pear shaped and with all the papers signed we are waiting for the judge to rubber stamp the documents and let us move on.
I am a firm believer that we all have a history (baggage), and it should not be carried around on one’s shoulders like a dead weight, but rather used as a base to grow from and make us taller and better people.
So, having gotten rid of the boring stuff I can now get to the good stuff and my first day as a Newbie to explore sexforums and make new friends.