First thing that comes into my mind is that the site is called Sex Forums.. Well yeah I know that sounds like a place you come into looking for sex. But not all users are here for that reason. Some come looking for help and others just to share stories and chat with like minded people. So coming onto the site and thinking that its only about sex 24/7 isn't gonna get you very far on here.
Second thing would be this site is a lot like real life. Yeah its the internet, but a lot of the same things that women expect in real life they expect here as well. Granted there are times in real life you can meet a girl and sleep with her that night, or maybe just chat for hours. Doesn't mean everyone here is the same way as that. You gotta take your time and work for it. And by work I don't mean sending them 50 private messages telling them they are hot, or that you would like to fuck them. Nine times out of 10 all that's gonna get you is on the ignore user list. You gotta be willing to put in the effort on here. Take things slow and don't push to hard. And trust me its worth the time. There is so many great people on here that also want nice friends to chat with. And hey maybe even more down the line.
Below is a sample of what most women on here like and don't like from male or even for that matter, female users. This was advice that I got straight from a female user on this site. Again everyone on a site this large is different. But during my time here I see that this is what a lot of women like and don't like.
Things that female users like....
1. Be yourself. Don't try to pretend or act like someone you aren't.
2. Be friendly, respectful, and polite.
3. Take the time to fill out your profile. That way women or men can see what you like and the hobbies you are into. As well as get to know more about you.
4. Visit the newcomers section of the site and great some fellow users. This shows that you are a nice person, and is also a good way to get messages from other users.
5. When you chat with someone listen to what they have to say. People are always impressed when you remember what they like to chat about.
6. Stand out from the crowd. Make yourself unique.
7. Take the time to read users profiles, threads, and blogs. Comment on them as well. And a nice sincere comment will get you a lot further then a 1 liner about sex, or how hot they are. Be genuine. Comment and rate there pictures. Again with nice comments.
8. Be active on the forums. Post and respond to topics. Users like to see a member that is active. They learn more about someone that way. And get to see how they really interact with the group.
Things that female users DO NOT like.
1. Don't take everything personal. There is a of of users on this site, and well not everyone is gonna get along or like what others have to say or do.
2. Don't think that all women on this site are here too meet guys and that's all they are about.
3. Don't be rude to any users.
4. If your in life chat and a user says "please don't whisper me", Respect that and don't. Also its very nice to first ask a user if you may whisper them.
5. Don't harass users with sexually crude comments. That's not gonna get you very far. Build a friendship first and see if they are into that kinda chat.
6. If you want to send some one a friend request again ask them first if that would be ok. Don't just send out random friend requests cause you think the user is cute and have never even talked to them.
7. Don't send out mass amounts of messages to users. Again this isn't gonna get you far except on the block list. If they really want to communicate they will let you know.
8. Don't ask users over and over to get naked if they are on there cam in live chat. If they want to get naked they will do it on there own. Remember these users do it for fun. They don't get paid to get naked. They do cams out of the kindness of there hearts. As well if I or another mod sees this kind of behavior you will be kicked out of the room. And maybe even off the site for good.
Again these are all just little tips that will hopefully make your stay here fun and light hearted. If you put in the time on this site and treat users with respect you will meet some amazing people. Trust me i know, I have so many people I consider true friends on this site. Just sit back and relax. Your time will come.
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