I have been partying! Not quite like a rock star, but pretty close to. I was at my wits end and my cousin Paul came through to cheer me up. He MADE me go out to the bar and have a beer with him. By the end of the night I had mingled with half the bar, this smoking hot chick was eye balling me and I had intended to go talk to her but I got distracted having a smoke outside talking to the guys and when I came back she was gone. Oh well, onto the next. Eventually Paul gets jumped by two guys outside while I'm talking to this girl inside (and being warned by her boyfriends friend that she was taken), so we have to leave. Paul is alright, the only damage is to his hand from punching the guys in the face. Not that I advocate violence, but when it's there you do what you have to do. I say bye and that girl (who's taken... sorry dude...) follows me out and makes out with me for a minute. Then I go home.
I haven't gone out like that in forever! That was Wednesday night... a few weeks ago.
Friday night is more relaxed. I Go out with my boy D. We have some drinks, hang out and mingle. D sang karaoke. I danced with this one girl but that was pretty much it... Hey I'm getting back into the swing of partying. Plus it was a slow night for the bar in general.
The next Friday my buddy Chris had come here from Florida. I haven't seen him in 10 years, or even talked to him in 9. He comes over and we go out for a drink. D calls and tells us to come through the bar he is at. We go there and party! Drinking, dancing with the ladies, hanging out, having a good time. Still no action... that comes... but a funny side note was when one of the girls I was hanging out with followed me outside after hugging her good bye. She was a lesbian and had a VERY masculine lesbian all over her that night. I don't remember what she said to me or what was said next, but I ended up telling her to give me her number... then I pause and say "What's your name?" She says, "You don't even know my name and you're trying to get my number?" Chris face palms and I say, "I don't give a fuck, what's your name?" She tells me her name and I get her number. We texted the next morning but I didn't take it anywhere because, well she is a lesbian... and I work with her.
I go out more but this blog is going to start getting long... So....
Fast forward to this past weekend. I go to the bar on Friday. D and a coworker meet me there as well as Chris and his brother. He points out one of the bigger groups of people there and they are all people I went to school with. Another crowd comes in consisting of co-workers and there friends and we own the bar. There may have been a few small groups there but the karaoke the dance floor and the majority of the bar was our crowd. Chris' brother even knew two of the girls that were amongst my co-workers from school. I end up at the bar with... yes.... ANOTHER lesbian sitting next to me hugging my arm. She asks if I want to go outside and have a smoke. We went out there amongst a few other people smoking and she says, "I want to make out with you, but there are people around." I said "Let's go to my car." So we do, we make out... she goes on saying, "I shouldn't be doing this with you, I like pussy" at one point she gives in and says "but there's nothing wrong with the occasional cock." She ended up saying stop after I had her breasts out and was sucking on a nipple. "We need to go in, we need to go in." I say alright and we start going in, but she stops me at the glass door (with people on the other side) and starts making out with me while putting her hand down my pants, wrapping it around my cock saying "Oh my god." then stroking it. I nodded and said "Yeah" as in 'that's right it's nice'. She kissed me again and said we have to go in and we went in. She asked what I was doing Saturday night because she was going out and wanted me to go. We exchanged numbers... I kissed her in the bar, which she kissed back and then as an after thought said "We shouldn't kiss in here."... Can't have anyone thinking she likes to fool around with guys when she is drunk. Bar closed. We all went home.
The next morning I text her and tell her to let me know what's up that night. She says she will, but by 9:00 PM I call Chris and ask if he wants to go out. His brother drops him off at my place and we go to the bar. Not too lively. One person I know from work, so Chris and I sit at the bar and... there's the girl from last night with some people. She sees me and comes over and sits down next to me. I pointed out she was supposed to text me. She says she didn't want to feel 'dirty' texting me to come out because her ex-girlfriend came over and they had sex that afternoon. I told her she should buy me a drink for not texting me. She called me an ass hole and bought me a drink. We kind of mingled from there I ended up going out to smoke and this girl was out there smoking so I started talking to her. Absolutely GORGEOUS face. Her guy friend comes out and I talk with both of them a bit more then go inside. I sit at the bar and guess who is back at my side. Yup, and she isn't really getting I'm blowing her off. OH!!!! Throughout all of this a couple comes in and sits next to Chris. The woman is a smoking hot older woman. The guy is friendly enough and buys Chris and I a drink. While I'm distracted with the girl who likes pussy, they are feeding Chris drinks and the woman is getting closer and closer to Chris. So the girl and guy I was smoking with were on the other side of the bar. I excuse myself from the girl at my side and go over to them. I proceed to tell them how this girl who is a 'lesbian' isn't getting the hint that I'm not interested in hanging out the very night I got blown off. I finish talking to them, go pee and when I come back Chris had been cut off. To the dismay of the couple as I hear the guy argued with the bartender insisting Chris was fine. I say my goodbyes and the girl who was outside smoking asks for my number. She texts me later while I'm at home (on SF chat) flirting a bit and I go to bed at 5 AM.
I don't know when I woke up, but that morning the girl who got my number texted me and asked if I wanted company that afternoon. I said yes and we went out for a couple drinks. Then we went back to my place into the bedroom and I'm sure you can all assume what went from there. So if girls don't want to be in a relationship with me, I'll live life single. It's not so bad....