I am married and recently found out that my wife was going to see another guy. I am a very calm person so I asked her about him and she told me she had been hanging out with the guy but nothing had happened. She said the she had stopped seeing him because he had flipped out on her and called her a cunt. I told her that she could do whatever she wanted and I was not going to stop her but that I was not going to just sit back and not do my own thing. She said she didnt want me too be with anyone else. I was able to get her to tell me that she did sleep over at his appartment and that he was naked but she wasnt. She said she gave him a hand job. I dont believe that she didnt sleep with him but she keeps telling me she didnt. She went to his place like 5 times one night they slept in the same bed but never had sex (acording to her) then one day she coordinated a hunting trip for me in my one friend so she could go see him. That was the day she said she gave him the hand job. So I have been with a few women since because why should I be faithful? The problem is that I love her still and the thought of her fucking this guy is hard to get over. There is more to the story as well...I work in a prison in my civilian career and the guy that she was seeing used to be an inmate in the same prison system that I work in. He was a small time criminal, robbed an arcade and got caught for it with drugs on him. So anyway this is a big deal since she new that he was an ex inmate cuz my civilian career could be jepodized by the whole situation, especially if I went and did something to the guy. So I also found out from her that the guy was still on parole but that he had a warrant out for his arrest because he didnt pay his fines and he failed to appear. So being the law abiding citizen that I am I called my buddy who works at the probation office and gave him the address of where my wife was seeing this guy. The problem was that he was in another county and my friend in probation couldnt go pick him up. So I called another friend who works for the state police and he went and picked the guy up and took him back to jail. So the guy has to sit in jail until he can come up with $12,000 to pay his fines and then he will have to get resentenced for skipping parole.
But still I want to know exactly what happened and she keeps telling me it was only a HJ and I just cant believe her. What do you all think?