This is my first blog entry - I've read a whole bunch of them and there are some seriously talented writers on here. Even though I'm not really as good, I need to start somewhere, right?
Anyways, this is about how I first had sex (yes, a very overdone and boring topic). however, I must warn you - there isn't actually any sex in this one (i'll work up the confidence to post my sexual exploits later).
Being a 20 year-old without having even had the slightest bit of sexual activity was a bit of a bore - especially when you're in uni and a whole bunch of your friends had already done the deed. I had always determined myself to wait until the right person came along - but by that point, I was desperate enough to seize any opportunity that drifted on by. And indeed it did come by, but certainly not in the way I expected.
I was hanging out with one of my friends at her house (we both live nearer to uni by ourselves) and we were just chatting. Me being the weakling I am, I wasn't even drinking, but my friend certainly was - she always did have a penchant for alcohol. The conversation spanned a lot of random topics and eventually we came to treasured memories (lol). I had asked her out to prom - which was a total surprise to EVERYONE because even I said I wasn't going - back in high school and we reminisced about it like an old married couple. From there we went on to past relationships, a field in which neither of us had much success. She had only had one boyfriend and they'd broken up some time ago - I had gone on a couple of dates, but with friends and nothing really came of them.
To cut a shorter story short, she (rather bluntly, I admit no doubt due to the alcohol) asked me if I had had sex. To my eternal chagrin, I was forced to say no.
And that's when it happened - rather off-handedly and quite unexpectedly, she said she'd be willing to have sex with me. Hell, even right there, at that moment in her house.
I was shocked. I'm pretty sure my mouth actually dropped open (and hit the floor like in those cartoons). We'd known each other for a long time, yes, but I didn't ever think it would come to this. She offered it almost like a tutorial, an entryway - and who was I to refuse? Of course, I decided to think it over - but the decision was pretty much made by the time I got home.
So, I'll just conclude this long-winded and rather pointless blog. The next one, I assure you (if anyone wants to bother reading it) will contain what ACTUALLY happened when we got together to have sex - and that was pretty interesting, as far as I recall.