Gentle perineum massage not only feels great but it is good for prostate health, and the well being of a guy’s entire sexual system. It is kind of like a tune up in a car.
I have read books instructing guys to do this to themselves but I have found that I much prefer J to do it to me. It is a bonding experience as well as erotic as all hell.
Gently massaging a guy’s perineum greatly relaxes his entire sexual system. Gently stroking his perineum always feels good. It's actually very relaxing, inducing a deep sense of well being and peace. However at the same time it is very erotic and arousing.
This sounds contradictory but it is this contradiction that opens guys to be receptive to feel pleasure and relax as the same time. Gently stroking my perineum for a period of time causes my entire body to relax, my pulse to slow, and my blood pressure to decrease; that is how powerful and beneficial it is. When J does a slow languid perineal massage on me, I melt. I can feel my heart slow down to the slowest number of beats per minute I ever experience.
The reason that this duality occurs is that the nerves running to all of my equipment run through my perineum. A gentle perineum massage increases circulation around all of these nerves.
These highly sensitive parts of a guy’s sexual structure never get the pleasure of being stimulated directly. Perineum massage relaxes these nerves and rejuvenates and makes them more sexually aware. I have learned that when these nerves are activated and working properly, all the sexual functions they connect to work better and feel better.
I am giving these directions to the women in SF because trust me fellow guy SFers … she is the one that you want to do this to you.
Ladies, a gentle massage of his perineum can be one of the most pleasurable and relaxing experiences that you can do for him. His perineum, penis, balls, prostate and anus are all interconnected and interwoven with millions of delicately sensitive nerve endings, which can yield most pleasurable sensations. Beyond nerves and muscles, over one third of his penis is buried inside his body directly under his balls. The base of the (hidden) penis and his penile bulb (underneath it) may also be massaged gently as part of this experience. His penile bulb is a pump like structure that mixes his juice and squirts it. You can feel it pulse during his orgasm with your hand.
As powerful as physical stimulation might be, it pales when compared to the immeasurably greater psychological or mental high a guy gets from getting a perineal massage from someone he loves. The very notion of being placed naked in such a vulnerable position, with J naked before me touching me intimately in this sexual but non sexual way results in a powerful mental rush, for both of us. The willingness of us guys who are naturally controlling in sex to allow ourselves to be placed in an unaccustomed submissive role, with our legs parted is particularly erotic.
I mentioned that J is naked when we do this. I highly recommend it having your partner be naked. It amplifies the eroticism of the moment exponentially. Laying there naked looking into her eyes as she gently stimulates this intimate part of me there is very intimate and spiritual. It feels so exquisitely sensual and restful, it is a true gift.
I have tried all different positions for this intimate experience. Of all the ones I have tried I prefer a laid back reclining position with my back raised off the floor and supported by large firm pillows at about a 30 degree angle. I pull my knees up in the direction of my chest and angle my legs outward. This position is comfortable for me, as well as allowing J an unobstructed view and unfettered access to my anus, perineum and penis. Often times we will do this on the floor with J sitting cross legged between my legs.
As a way to relax me, J usually begins by massaging my abdomen, inner thighs and belly button. The area around a guy or a girl’s belly button is very sensitive especially when combined with massage of the area around his cock and anus. My experience is that initially, the impulse to close my eyes is overwhelming as the massage progresses; but it is exponentially more intimate, arousing and pleasurable if I maintain eye contact with her while her hands are working me.
Ladies, if you rub the area with your finger tips, you will feel a sort of wide rope or cable going right up the middle of his perineum. That is what you will massage when you are massaging him. Start right near his anus. Locate that cable of fibers right under the skin; it feels like a wide rope.
Use a good quality lube and apply it all over his perineum. I prefer a Gel like KY or Astro Glide Gel as it stays on the skin and doesn’t dry out.
Place your 3rd and 4th fingers from each hand on either side of this "rope"; the fingers of both hands gently touching each other. Then press gently and move your fingers left to right over this "rope". The skin will move with your fingers. If it is at all painful you are pushing much too hard. It should feel good.
Massage as long as you want and then move your fingers about a half inch higher towards his penis. Repeat the massaging in the new location. Keep moving up toward his penis in this fashion.
When you reach two thirds of the way to his balls you will find this "cord” goes into a little depression. Eastern sexual masters called this many names, but in all the programs I have been through this is called the million dollar spot. If I am erect and J very gently presses and massages me there with the pad of her thumb I can feel the zing go through my prostate, penis and anus. Zen masters teach the use of this spot as a way to control and circulate chi, stop the loss of cum during sex and to balance energy in the lower half of the body. For me it just feels incredibly good to have it massaged. On the other side of the million dollar spot the cord becomes more diffuse and becomes more tubes with less nerves and muscles.
Although the perineum muscles and most of the nerve bundle end at his scrotum, important sexual nerves continue all way to the tip of his penis. As a result, when you are gently pressing the “cord” he will feel the pressure around his anus and along the length of his penis. For me I get a tingling sensation around the corona of my penis if I can relax and give into the sensation.
You can continue this massage all the way up his penis if it feels good. Sometimes J will divert from my perineum and massage my shaft being careful to avoid my cockhead for the obvious reason that I will cum. The most important area in this massage, however, is the actual perineum area. And that is where you should spend most of your time.
Many times when we do this J will continue the massage to my anus, applying well lubricated firm pressure all around my opening. It is a sensation that can only be described as riveting and very arousing.
I have this issue of streaming large volumes of pre cum when I am aroused; all of the dry orgasms that I have done have strengthened my Cowpers Glands to secrete large amounts of pre cum. Typically as I am getting really into the massage the stimulation of my perineum and my million dollar spot causes my precum to be particularly profuse. J is always really aroused by this. Beyond the eroticism of it this added lubricant is very helpful in the massage process.
You can stop here and go into P in V sex or you can stop and go to bed. I don’t recommend that as your guy will be totally juiced up at this point.
If you desire to transition to ejaculation after a full massage of his penis here are a few pointers that will enhance the orgasm. I learned these years ago.
Begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Ladies you will need to remind him to breathe deeply and to sink deeper into relaxation as you transition the massage from his perineum up to his balls and shaft.. As guys the more intensely erotic sensation gets we tend to hold our breath. Deep breathing oxygenates his blood and feeds his sex organs the energy they need to produce the deep bliss that they are capable of.
Pour a small quantity of lube on the shaft of his penis and testicles. Begin gently massaging his testicles, holding them in your hand and warm them, causing them to descend into your hands. Gently stroke the back side of his balls; you will feel his seminal vesicles inside his testicles; they are tube like tissue like spaghetti on the back side of his balls. Ever so gently stroke them with your middle finger while you hold his balls in your hand to warm them and keep them descended. . Massage the scrotum gently, causing it to relax in your hand. Some eastern masters call this the nest of trust; your hands cradling this very vulnerable part of him. It is one of the deeply spiritual aspects of this massage.
Massage the area above the base of his penis, on his pubic bone at the same time you are cradling his balls. At the top of his pubic bone firmly push down on the soft tissue above the bone on his lower abdomen. This will put ever so slight pressure on his prostate deep inside him. Tease him and avoid touching his cock. Then slowly work from the pubic bone up his shaft stopping just short of his corona or cockhead. Take time when massaging his shaft. Vary the speed and pressure. Gently squeeze it at the base with your right hand, and pull up stretching it up as you slide off, then alternate with your left hand. Take your time doing this, right, left, right, left, etc. This will fill his penis with blood and harden it to its maximum ability. Do this for as long as you like, the longer the better. If he goes soft don’t worry the goal is not to rush to orgasm but for you to savor and massage his manhood.
Apply more lubricant to your hands. Then, change the direction by starting the squeeze at the corona and then sliding down and off, alternating with right and left hands. Keep your thumbs extended and parallel to his shaft so that the pad of your thumb rides over his frenulum, or the cleft on the underside of his cockhead. This is the most sensitive part of his penis; in me it is an orgasmic trigger. Also sensitive is the opening of his urethra, the slit at the tip of his penis. Tease that gently and open it as you do.
Hold the shaft of his penis still in your hand and use your thumb to massage little circles on his frenulum. With your other hand cradle his balls, and hold them. As he gets close to ejaculation his balls will try and retreat into his body, hold them and keep them out. This will inhibit his ejaculation and make it stronger when it happens.
Massage the head of his penis as if you are using an orange juicer. It will be large and full and swollen. My cockhead turns purple when I am really aroused; some guys will remain pink or brown obviously depending on their race. Massage all around the head and shaft.
If it appears that he is going to cum, back off; allow him to soften a little before resuming the massage. Do this several times, coming close to ejaculation, and then backing off. This is commonly called edging; as a technique it can be used to extend the time of the massage and also intensify the ejaculation. You can tell when he is going to cum as just before he squirts, his cockhead will puff up and swell. Seconds later the cum will pour out of him.
When J combines a lengthy perineal massage with a languid, slow and sensual massage of my penis with the intent of making me ejaculate, the resulting ejaculation is deep and hard. I can tell you that a 45 minute long perineal massage that ends with slow tantalizing and loving massage of my penis produces the thickest, most copious cum and the most intense ejaculatory orgasms I can have.
When I erupt, the relaxed organs inside of me will go from a loose and relaxed state to their maximum contraction. The process of doing that produces intense pleasure. I can feel my insides being gripped, squeezed and literally pumped out in ecstatic waves. The resulting pulsing orgasmic contractions are so intense the cum will jet out of me in thick ropes.
When it is done I am wasted. Done properly this brings such deep relation that I will fall asleep on the floor if I don’t get into bed fairly quickly.
For me the ultimate time to have a perineal massage and orgasmic massage is after I have MMOed in the preceding day or days. The combination of sensitizing me and juicing up my prostate by having dry orgasms produces ejaculatory orgasms that are so hard, I get light headed.
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