The position requires a comfortable straight chair with no arms. The chair should be fluid resistant as this will be squishy sex and the way she is sitting will cause both of your liquid contributions to wind up on the chair. You also might want to cover the seat with a towel as well it will be better than sitting in cold puddle of cum. This chair becomes what we call the “throne”. Indeed when we discuss having sex in this position we refer to it as “throne sex”. Bring the chair into the bedroom or put it wherever you desire to fuck. Obviously both of your clothes are gone.
1. Each of you gets fifteen minutes of massage time sitting in the throne; this is full body massage using just hands. No touching girly or boy bits allowed . . . this is only the non sex parts of his/her body. Obviously you alternate; you can draw straws for who goes first …but guys . . . . earn points by letting her go first. There’s also a benefit later.
2. After you are both loosened up and relaxed, repeat the 15 minute alternating sessions with kisses and mouth love all over each other’s bodies. Guys don’t dive for the pink pearl immediately, focus on all of her erogenous zones, especially the subtle ones; she will go crazy if you build her up slowly. Fifteen minutes is the minimum investment here but go as long as you want.
3. When you are both relaxed and feeling all juiced up, the guy should sit in the straight backed chair. In that you were a gentleman and went second, your lady will have just finished serious mouth love on your cock, hopefully rendering it erect and ready for a caress by a wanton pussy.
4. Ladies you will sit on his lap facing him, straddling his crotch so that your pussy and his cock are up against each other. At this point you have an option. You can have him penetrate you immediately or you can prolong the wait for penetration and build up the arousal. J and I usually opt to build up the arousal. It is much sweeter when the build up is slow and culminates in sweet penetration. If that is your choice (which I hope it is), then do what we call hands on kissing. As you kiss each other use your hands. You can caress each others faces, embrace the back of the head, run fingers thru each others hair. The only rule is here that no hands are allowed below the shoulders; the tactile experience here is with the head, neck, face, ears etc.
J loves this part especially, because she loooooooves intense but gentle
kisses and facial caresses.
5. When you have kissed each other to the point that your head feels like it will explode, her pussy will be sodden and heavy with lust and your cock will be aching, then it is time for penetration.
6. Ladies you are now in control. Your pussy is probably coated with your own juice by now; you should support yourself by putting your hands on his shoulders so that ever so slowly you can lower yourself onto him. The penetration should be incremental and agonizingly slow.
7. Eyes. This is open eyed sex. If you haven’t ever had O.E.S. this is a good time to start. Look into each others eyes as her pussy is swallowing your cock. Look into each others eyes like this woman is the most important thing in your life. Appreciate the fact that she is letting you inside her body, this is the most intimate thing one human being can do to another . . . letting you be inside of her. Respect that honor and tell her how much you appreciate it with out saying a word. Tell her with your eyes and face. Look at the changes in your expressions and relish the erotic anguish he/she is showing you.
8. Once you are deep inside her, get comfortable. Ladies, find a position that will force the mouth of your vagina right up against his pubic bone; get as snug up to him as you can. Guys you may have to help here by sliding your butt forward on the seat to give her access to get you in her as deeply as possible. That is the goal: to get as deeply into her pussy as you possibly can.
9. Once you are comfortable buried in her cunt, interlock your hands, palm to palm. I have learned over the years thru Zen, yoga and other eastern body – energy traditions that palm to palm skin contact affords the interchange of a great deal of energy. A tantric teacher once told me that palm to palm contact transmits such emotion and intense levels of energy that sometimes people will cry as orgasm overtakes them. It never happened to me but it feels damned good. It may take a little getting used to as you will not be able to bend your elbows. You can put your arms straight down or out to the sides . . . keep them wherever it feels comfortable.
10. Ladies you are now in the driver’s seat . . . in that you usually require more time than him to reach orgasm this position is designed to help accommodate that. Rock against him, grind your clit against his pubic bone, pull on his cock and squeeze him. The goal here is to keep your palms together to facilitate the flow of energy and to force your weight on his cock and your clit, your intrerlocking hands make that happen. Keep your eyes open and look into each others eyes deeply. Ladies rock on him, grind on him and watch his face as you do. Remind him to look in your eyes if he starts to close his.
11. Because J is getting a lot of clitoral stimulation and she is thrusting on me her arousal will build quickly. If you didn’t know already…pelvic thrusting in men or women accelerates orgasm. Our brains are wired to trigger orgasm with rigorous pelvic thrusting... its mother natures way of insuring that you plant your seed quickly so that you don’t get eaten by a T – Rex .before you launch the next generation of dinosaur dinner.
12. Because the guy is not getting a lot of friction, he will be able to last a little longer this way. As her arousal grows her vagina will balloon out and hold your cock firmly around its base, leaving dead space around the head of your cock.
13. At this point we always verbalize, sometimes telling each other sweet things, sometimes filthy things. The only thing we don’t do is kiss. The reason for that is . . although I have great staying power (I can go an hour if I need to) she knows that when I am inside her all she has to do to get me to shoot is kiss me. I have no ability to control my orgasm when she kisses me. As soon as our lips touch I will explode in her.
14. With the knowledge that she has the key to the ignition switch it is up to her to decide when enough is enough. If she wants to go for multiples for herself she can, if she doesn’t want to O at all and is happy with the closeness and the act, that is fine too.
15. For J. and me she decides when enough is enough by ….kissing me. She can time that kiss to her own orgasm or not. I will say that the only times in 38 years when we have had simultaneous orgasms it was in this position.
16. As you are both cumming look in each others eyes!!! Even if you couldn’t look at each other until now . . . force yourself to do it as you are being overtaken. It is indescribable what I feel as I look in her eyes as she is sliding off the edge into the arms of rapturous orgasm. Watching this happen to her as my own body is being gripped in agonizing bliss is mind altering.
17. Ladies rest on him and lean on him as he is emptying into you and your pussy is being gripped in the convulsive spasms of climax.
18. As the climax is happening, vocalizing is a particularly erotic way to punctuate the feelings you are experiencing. Groan, moan, scream …do what ever moves you.
19. When fluid exchange is done and spasms have quieted. sit on his softening cock ladies don’t get up immediately. Unclasp your hands and embrace each other. Zen teachings say that the energy flow continues well after climax. Share the energy that you have created together and enjoy the feeling of each others bare skin on your own.
20. We usually close with sweet and gentle kisses and a thank you. How often we make love and we never would say thank you. This is a good way to express the love and respect she deserves and my appreciation for what she has just shared with me. Making love is not doing her or her doing me but rather it is us sharing something of each other, with each other, together.
21. I learned this technique 15 years ago in a retreat. It has been a wonderful part of our sexual repertoire For us, it is a life altering way to make love. When we have throne sex, the impact lasts for days. I treat her differently and I think of her differently for several days afterwards. The Master that I learned from told me that it is her energy that I feel afterwards. Through this intense sexual exchange I have absorbed her energy and it is with me, inside of me and because of that I am more attuned to her feelings, desires and her being. I sincerely believe it works.
So to Lyrical, Miss C., Melli and all my other friends out there on the site… go enjoy your lover, savor the gift that he or she is giving you and feel the power of intense and deep love! And oh yes ….KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN.
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