You also need to keep in mind that as tempting as it may be, don’t get your vagina as a gift to yourself at Christmas. The confusion of the holiday will not allow you to give the vagina all the attention it needs with the excitement of all the other presents.
The first thing that you need to realize is that unlike a guy’s penis, a vagina does not make all the decisions for its woman. As guys we all know that our cocks are in control of us 99.9% of the time. I can be engaged in the most heady discussion with three professional colleagues when a voluptuous woman with a thin bra walks by and the consideration of the worlds problems comes to as grinding halt as three cocks all strain at the pants that are confining them as they shrilly scream at their owners: “look at her, look at her, oh my god look at those nipples, look, look dammit stop what you are doing, look at her!!!!!!” Or there was the occasion when I was at the lake with the love of my life, the woman who bore my children, the woman who I would give my life for and whom I will love until the day I die, when a lithe young nymphette with a very skimpy bikini restraining a lush bountiful body went into the water in front of us. As I struggled to maintain my concentration on my lovely wife’s conversation, my cock was making this huge ruckus jumping around in my swimsuit screaming: “holy shit, look at that ass, will ya look at her!!!!! What a camel toe oh my fackin god , her bewbs are gonna snap that string holding that skimpy top, wowee, wowee!!!!!!” It was all I could do to keep it attached to me and from jumping off of my body.
But vaginas are different, they are very restrained. Unlike the frantic penis which is always straining and pulling and yelling, vaginas tend to be more calm and restrained. Vaginas don’t tell their women what to do; with vaginas it’s the other way around. The woman tells the vagina what to do. A woman can be sitting at a sidewalk café when a good looking guy with noticeable bulge in his pants walks by. Her brain will notice the bulge and think hmmmm I bet that package is a hefty, meaty one! Does it hold promise of stiffening into a respectable live dildo .. . .but just wait a sec, is it just a hot dildo or is there something worthwhile behind it?. What about him? She will then start the scan. The scan puts the airport x ray machines to shame. In seconds she will size you up. She will look for marks of sincerity in subtle places that guys never look, mainly your eyes. She will look for your grooming habits for things like having hair where you should and no hair where you shouldn’t. She will look at your lips and your smile; she will assess your confidence by your stride and your fitness by looking at your back, your ass, legs and your arms. She will look at your shoes, a lot of women judge guys by their shoes. She will look for signs of your integrity by looking at your hands, do they show strength or weakness, skill or dexterity. Could she imagine your hands caressing her vagina and stoking it lovingly coaxing it to orgasm? Could those hands be trusted with her most secret asset, the seat of her femininity?
At this point her vagina hears its name and is very likely to perk to attention with a response: “did someone call me, is there a prospect out there that I should know about? Where is he, tell me what does he look like!!!!!!!” The woman will determine if the vagina needs additional information, women are cautious, they won’t get their vaginas hopes up unless there is good reason. Your job is to give her good reasons.
OK so now that you understand the woman – vagina relationship you can put your energy into the woman; recognize that what is good for the woman will ultimately be good for the vagina and that will benefit you.
The first thing about the woman that you need to keep in mind that sincerity and integrity are the basic credentials that you need to get the inside track; while pop culture would lead you to believe that cars, clothes and expensive cologne are the credentials de rigueur to be redeemed at the hot babe store, its not so. Right behind sincerity and integrity are other basics like warmth, honesty, good sense of humor and respect; these are qualities that are equally good to have in your wallet besides cash. Above all else, when you are gathering up all of these qualities in your back pocket to go out and find your woman – vagina pair, always present them with an open smile and a warm hug. Hugs are greatly underrated. A firm embrace that shows your strength and your gentleness that is capped off with a warm kiss will make the woman’s head spin and her vagina weep. That is good, a damp vagina does hold some influence over the woman.
So you have done everything that you should of and now there you are at home with the woman, don’t assume that she will let the vagina come out to play, even if the vagina sees you now and likes what it sees. At this point the vagina may start behaving like a penis. But unlike in guys, women are still in control and the vagina will ultimately listen to what ever the woman tells it.
You need to remember that playing with the vagina is a side benefit of a happy woman who is at ease with you; if you are lucky she might even develop deep feelings for you. If you are lucky and she does develop intimate feelings for you, she will grant you more than playtime with the vagina, she will grant you joint responsibility for its care and well being. That gentleman is the goal. Make the woman happy so that you ultimately have the chance to make the vagina even happier.
After time, and the exchange of affection, mutual respect and evidence that you are worthy, you will begin to walk the path that will lead ultimately to the exchange of bodily fluids. Use the intimate relationship development time wisely. Don’t rush the vagina to like you to right out of the gate. Vaginal relations demand restraint and patience on your part. You need to be tender with it, tease it and pat it and show it that you can be trusted. Once there is a basic level of trust you should definitely kiss it and lick it if you see that it is drooling in response to you. Still don’t push it faster than it wants to go. It you play your cards right it will be all over you in no time.
One of the things that you need to be conscious of is that all vaginas need a balanced diet to maintain good health. The best way to nourish a vagina is to use a cock to feed it copious amounts of hot cum. Every vagina is different …some will require more frequent feeding than others. Some like to gobble it up fast and furious, while others like to savor the nourishment and stretch out feeding time. It will require judgment to figure out what the best schedule is. Again keep in mind that the woman is in charge here, and that she will determine the amount and frequency of nourishment, regardless of what the vagina wants.
If you are lucky the vagina will develop a taste for you and will reject being nourished by anyone else. Again this as much a decision of the woman as it is of the vagina. So don’t let up on the love and affection to the woman. Tell her how you feel. After the initial relationship is established the best way to get the woman to feel comfortable with you is thru communication. Communication is the last thresh hold to cross that will get you joint custody of the vagina. Once communication is established, trust follows immediately. With trust all you need to do to get access to the vagina is ask. With the establishment of trust your relationship will be solid. Now the vagina will always be there when you come home, happy to see you and forever happy to curl up in bed with you. If you can tolerate its incessant drooling whenever it sees you, you will be guaranteed to have a friend for life.
Regardless of what the ASPCA says, a vagina is mans best friend.
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