so part of the reason that i am here is because i am shy around girls. Well, not really shy but i have a hard time making a move. i am a great opener but poor closer. I think i over think the situation instead of jut going in for the kiss. when i know a girl likes me or im set up then i have no problem, but situations like that havent been happening so often recently and i feel like i blow a lot of chances.. any tips? i feel like i completely miss signs and need to be hit over the head with them.