This quote was as early as motzart , voltare , and behtoven. So why is it men and women at the prime of there existance (21-35 or older if still fit ) dont get this? Are they in a cave? Are they just unaware that life demands some bit of change?
I for one dont have the slightest friggin idea why! Let me explain, men date rapidly , we use bars , stores , parties , work and pulibic venues. Anywhere there is a woman there will be a man less restricted like a womans shelter or a locker room. However , most men dont get it. The it i speak of is treating a woman the way she needs to be treated. By this i mean the basics of any romatic realtionship in where u : kiss , talk , listen , hug , touch , and fornicate. Why is it so hard? Are men so distant from women that it cant be done? Are we doomed to all be neanderthals who say " ug big dick and u bed now!"? Do any men actually court a lady any more , date , or other wise get to know more then a name to scream in bed?
I say yes!
For the fact that , romance is an art much like rock and roll or any other genre of music ( i like rock so i picked it tough!). Many men forget , that there urges to have sex and be touched phyisicly for them are met with women wanting the same (but some more so then others) as well a constant need for attention, be it good or bad.
example 1 displaying neggitve attention : my ex , she cheated on me for drugs while i was away for a week we had dated a year i saw nothing in her eyes that said "im not happy." , but she decided that sucking off the pot dealer beacuse she was high was a better course of action then waiting for me to return with the flowers i bought and a bottle of wine. we dated a year, but she decided she needed dick and pot over comfort and wine. she never complained about sex . i know she came most of the time beacuse soaked sheets are proof. i dont abuse women. every night till then i was home when i could be and she was in my arms like i was 5 and she was my teddy bear. Sweet right? loving caring and supportive.
end result: i beat the shit outta my neighbor whos dick was sucked , locked her out of my appt. , packed her shit and threw it out the window by the door. with a note " get the fuck out of my life!" I had responded as any sane rational man could. i didnt hit her , break her stuff just wanted her gone. i was hurt her need for attention i some how didnt meet that week so a year was worth shit!
example 2 displaying positve attention: At the time i was 20 working at a place called central steel. it was a night shift and from 11pm to 7am. My appt. was verry small, a studio infact. i had been dating a woman who was 22 in collage and some how just liked me. we could talk for hours on the phone, and in bed. One day i decided she needed a key to my place so she can sleep there and be ther in the morning so i can wake her and kiss her as she went off to collage classes for the morning. She did many times , it was sweet and a big step. 3 months we had been dating it was a saturday morning i did my usual clean up and punch out. Get a cup of coffie from dunks and drive home. I walked up the flight of stairs and down the hall to my appt. and opened the door. i saw candles freshly lit. in the small room and my beauty laying in bed wrapped in some red slinky night wear.
conclusion: before the door shut on its own i was undressing tierd as hell from loading steel allnight and smelt of iron ore and dinged still from the carbon of the metal but i didnt care my woman had a good idea she knew i was comming home with nothing but me and my coffie. she became the best part of my day i was soo sleepy but i didnt care she needed me and i gave her what she wanted..... me!
theres many more examples im sure! but u get it? if your happy , and like your situation.... STAY. If your miserable and u find that ur not wanted or not worth wating for so they find another .... LEAVE.
ok we covered that! got it? if not re-read all and some other blogs of mine! beacuse ur a retard... emotionaly NOT YOUR FAULT! BUT, you need to learn how to act before u can love. beacuse ladies and gentleman , love is and act it takes work.... time ... patence and some times all you got and more just to taste it.
and i will say its good. but ill also say it can hurt. trust me ive been up down and arround. just be normal and have common sense and if you need help ask! im a message away!
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