I'm 24 and have had a lot of sexual experience with only a few partners. Ive always been open to try new and exciting things but my last relationship lasted several years and much of our sex was fairly reserved; trying anal occasionally (on her), face-fucking, and having some mildly rough sex, but for the most part it was fairly normal and nothing too crazy. So now I'm with a new girlfriend and shes much younger (19), and hasn't had much experience sexually. Our first time together she wanted me to be more forceful and ravish her. Me being adventurous and completely willing to oblige I had no problem taking control of her as she asked. However, she wanted me to please her but not enter her vagina, allowing me to only rub her through her panties. While exploring her body, and arousing her by rubbing her vagina I subconsciously began to rub her asshole at the same time. Ive always had a fetish for anal sex and was curious to her reaction. Surprisingly, she enjoyed the taboo of having her virgin ass played with by my fingers. As things progressed during our sexual encounters with each other she continued to prohibit me from entering or even feeling the skin of her vagina. She then asked if I would be more forceful, telling me she enjoyed squirming and resisting me, and begging to hear me talk dirty to her. Her only boundary to not cross was to not go under her panties. Things got so hot and steamy her squirming and begging for me to stop rubbing her vagina through her panties, pulling off her bra and playing along with her naughty fantasy. I was unsure and stopped so to be sure I was reading the situation correctly. I asked her if she was ok, she said yes, so I continued. Eventually, I got so hot that I made the choice to brush her panties to the side of her thigh and began to finger her ass (not touching her vagina like she asked). She loved it. The next time we had an encounter I ended up fucking her in her ass, never having fucked her vagina, let alone touched it with my skin. We both have openly admitted our fantasies, love the sex, and have been mature making sure we are smart. Ive done some reading on the topic of ravishment, forming 'safewords' together and we've discussed how happy we are emotionally and sexually with each other. She says she hasn't had much sexual experience, never did anal, and has only had one other sexual partner whom she never asked to fulfill her ravishment/forced sex fantasy. Is this normal that our first sexual intercourse together was anal and that "every time" we are intimate together she requests to be ravished and we only do anal?