together about a month before my parents did everything humanly possible to make sure I couldn't date her because they didn't "approve" of her. PS, they didn't approve
of anyone involved with me; friends, dates, coworkers, classmates, etc. In the short time that we were together though, I really enjoyed it; we got along great together,
shared some amazing kisses, and had a few fun dates. That was 5 years ago and now she is back in my life, we've caught up on our lives since we were last in contact,
and I might have the option of dating her again sometime before summer this year.
The second girl, I'll call her A, is a girl that I only met about a month and a half ago at a local restaurant I visit a lot. A and I have been talking quite a good bit in that time,
hanging out when we can, and we have kissed once (it was great by the way). I really like her and honestly hope I see more of her soon and hope we could turn into
something more than friends at some point.
That's the pro's, here are the con's:
S has an ex-bf that, even though she has repeatedly caught him cheating on her and he treats her like complete garbage, she still goes back to him after leaving him
to give him "another chance because it's the right thing to do". I do NOT want something like that getting in the way of me and her if we rekindle that old flame.
A is in the process of figuring herself out and trying to make plans for her future, she has been honest with me that she is not really looking for a relationship at the
moment, but she has said I've sparked her interest. She has also told me that she has never dated a younger guy (she's 20, I'm 19) and she's not sure how she feels
And now the added details that may or may not have any importance:
They are both 20, and I seem to have better luck with girls who are older than me.
In the opinions of my closest friends, they are both a 10 out of 10 and I should be sad that polygamy isn't legal. (I agree)
If I choose one I will more than likely lose any shot I have with the other, but if I do nothing then I'll be friend-zoned by them both.
I have absolutely no idea what to do or think and that frustrates the sanity out of me.
I'm about to pass out, and I have to be up in just a few hours so if I need to add something later I will in a comment, feel free to ask questions and post your thoughts. Thanks.