Be it being more active while performing in bed, takingcharge during a romp or arousing their lady love for a gratifying act – menrule the roost ubiquitously. But they too can go wrong at times and thus end upkilling sexual passion.
Here are some recurring sex mistakes that men make during anintimate session. So the next time you gear up for a steamy sex session, makesure you keep at bay with these sex-slips...
Rushing towards climax : Travelling the passageis more fun and enjoyable rather than merely reaching the final destination andthe same holds true for 'sex'. But men seem to be forgetting this completely,as they often run after climaxing moments and pay lesser attention to otheracts that can add to the sexual pleasure. Carrying an expression that it's onlythe peak moments you are waiting for might makes sex appear like a routine actand not one done for ecstasy.
Imposing sexual fantasises : Agreed that sexualdesires are to be shared and fulfilled appropriately, but men, thoughunintentionally, end up forcing it sometimes upon the female partner. Menshould make it a point to express their sexual fantasies and then let thepassion be built up gradually, which allows the female partner to make aneffort to perform those desires willingly. Imposition of any sort will lead toturning off the other partner and thus marring the entire mood.
Sidelining foreplay acts : Making love to afully aroused partner not only enhances performance, but also brings sensuouspleasure. Alas, most men don't seem to be following this sex-mantra much, asthey do not take foreplay acts seriously. Be it out of ignorance or keenness tosimply jump into the bed for a sex romp, men often disappoint their femalelovers by not performing the arousal acts in the desired way and hence leavingthem partially stimulated.
Acting too wild and messy : It's nice to be abit naughty and dirty in bed. But remember not to go overboard with your wildacts, as it may irk your partner. Men repeatedly get harsh and wild in theirsexual gestures and hence many a times do not make up for a pleasurable sexsession. At such times, their female counterpart feels that she is merely a sexobject and the main purpose of intimacy gets completely lost.
Seeing, treating her as a porn star : Men oftenconsider their female partners as wild sex-kittens, which may not be a greatthought to have in your mind as you slip between the sheets. Expecting her tobehave like a porn star or anticipating that she will do everything that youhave seen in a porn flick, often makes her feel uncomfortable. It's importantto understand that sex is to be enjoyed in the most natural way that is pleasingto the other partner as well. Let the porn fantasy stay out of your bedroom andenjoy the passionate moments for some real fun.
Disrespecting her comfort zone : Each partner possesses a certain comfortzone while having sex and it's mandatory for the other partner to respect thoseby all means. Be it an act of undressing or trying out a kinky sexual positionor participating in oral pleasure, men tend to commit a mistake of notrespecting a woman's comfort zone. Many men simply expect their female partnersto do just about everything in bed that pleases him and in the process; he byand large ruptures the sexual bliss.