well here goes... im 19, a virgin and have been struggling sexually forever. Ive never had a girlfriend and i have never been able to spit good game. I usually if not ALWAYS get "friend zoned" by any hot girls i try to pursue. In high school, i wasn't lame but i just wasn't really outgoing and had low confidence. i thought that by trying to only talk to girls who were "interested" in me i would find someone but it failed. truth be told, im really really really a virgin. Never even got a blowjob yet. No kisses... and i've never even been close to "in bed".... someone answer my question... how can I loose my virginity?