She suggested I "hook up" with other women, and to make things level, what harm would it be for her to have a little fun too? At first, the thought was a little-a lot- sketchy. The thought of my true love fooling around with someone else, repulsed me. However, I put myself in her shoes, going out and possibly having sex with another woman. It took a little while, but in the end, sex should be fun. And whats a little fun between friends? Sometimes sex with friends is the most fun. Its almost like booty call, or maybe a one -night stand. Some extra excitement
The hard part is being patient. I still have yet to experience my initial encounter. Its easier for a woman to hook up than a guy.
Girl: your hot, up for some fun?
Guy: Uh, SURE!
Guy: Hi, youre cute, wanna hookup?
Girl: Fuck you, what do I look like, a cheap whore?
Another difficult situation is the envy. Not jealousy. But envy. You should never be jealous. BOTH of you have the "hall pass". We have chosen to not really speak of our extra curriular encounters, unless a situation or problem arises. I made that mistake. I kinda lost my cool on one occassion. I had to remind myself that its a two way street, and this is for us, not just my overdrive hormones.
So here I am. Blogging about my new view on sex and looking for a companion, friend, hang out or maybe just a one night fuck. Feel free to comment, throw some advice my way. Either on the open relationship or my blogging skills, as this is my first ever blog.