Are you sick and tired of begging your mate for sex? Now this goes both ways… I know women who are desperate for a naughty roll in the hay and certainly more than a hand full of good men who would love to be taken, spanked and put to bed properly. As I write and let the flood gates to my soul open, I think of a Cheshire cat’s grin and liken the grin on my face to a ‘Chegrin’ – a made-up word to summarize the ear to ear smile planted on my face as I think dirty thoughts and delve into a pleasurable abyss.
Society has become a treadmill of multi-tasking to meet the demands of this thing called life. The lack of balance between work, family, and intimacy has played a big part in the increased divorce rate. I think it’s super important to take a flying leap off the treadmill, wrap your arms around your honey, and whisper into their ear, “Oh Baby. I want to taste you.” No matter how cluttered your brain is, at that moment, those erotic sweet words will stir your dirty little twin within!
Though a fast and furious quickie has its place, I especially adore an exceptional tongue lashing – both giving and receiving. My partner knows exactly how to bring me out of my head of stress and slowly melts my to-do list into a far-off place. To me, nothing is more sensually or sexually satisfying than an attentive partner who is gifted in performing oral sex. Here is the inside scoop on how to lure a lady out of her head and awaken her naughty little twin.
Women get fired up when their puss is treated correctly. It’s not about gorging on the area; it’s more about exploring and slowly working your way inside as she begs with her hips and moans. The secret to sheer pleasure is what I call the Double ‘T’ Technique – tongue and toy combination. A sex toy is a man’s best friend. It takes the pressure off the man to bring a woman to climax by manual manipulation alone. Plus, a toy’s stimulation is different, making it extra arousing. Trust your instincts, go with the flow and listen to your partner.
Lay her back on a pile of pillows and get her nice and comfy. Pay special attention to her face, hold her face with your hands while kissing her gently. Less is more and soft is good. It’s important to leave her wanting more as you slowly kiss and feel your way down to her breasts. Using your thumb and fore finger, gently roll her nipple in your fingertips and tug ever so slightly. Nuzzle her neck and whisper in her ear, “Ah, I can’t wait to taste your puss.” I promise she will feel a clench inside her vagina, and she will gasp as she lifts her hips in anticipation of your touch.
Run your fingertips down the sides of her body and cup her ass in your hands, while at the same time wedge your knee between her legs and allow her to push up against you. She will be dying to rub just about anything! Alternate between her nipples, sides, and ass and when you are ready, and she is begging for you to touch her puss, slip a finger into the wetness and offer her your finger to suck. That is super erotic, and this is the time to do it.
To awaken the naughty twin whom lives within, it’s time to introduce Big Boss. Trace Big Boss’s realistic head across her tummy up between her breasts. Tease her with your smiling eyes and then work your way down to her puss. Circle your tongue around the outside of her clitoris and every so often lick the top of the vaginal opening all the way up over her clitoris. For some women, direct clitoral stimulation can be too sensitive, so be observant! If she likes her clitoris licked, continue licking in a slow pulse-like way. If you find it’s too sensitive, circle her clitoris with your tongue. While nuzzling her magic spot, tease her inner thighs and puss lips with Big Boss. Continue to tease her outer puss until you sense she is trying to mount it. When this happens, hold off a little longer before inserting the head of Big Boss. Anticipation is half the pleasure! Once her pleading moans and bucking hips start to surface, it’s time to lube Big Boss.
Use water based lubricant and slather a generous layer of lubricant onto the shaft. Apply a light steady suction to her clitoris with your lips and flutter your tongue ever so slightly on and around the clitoris. Continue sucking for a few seconds. This build up and anticipation is killing her by now and all she can think about is feeling a hard cock in her puss. Turn on Big Boss and discover what technology has to offer… my favorite is the pulsing and rolling feature. I’m wet just thinking about it! Apply pressure with the tip of Big Boss’s head to the outside of her puss. She’s going to try to slide down hard onto the shaft, but don’t let her. Only allow the head to enter just barely into the opening. Continue to pay special attention to her clitoris with your tongue and lips while gradually giving more and more of Big Boss to her aching puss. She will want to buck up and down as you fill her puss full of pleasure. As the experience heightens and she is getting closer to climax, pull Big Boss out and tease her clitoris and outer anal area. Big Boss’s pattern vibrations are incredible, and she won’t know which way is up or down by this point. Make her beg you to slide it back into her super wet opening. When you are ready to deliver her to orgasmic heaven, slide the vibrating Big Boss half way in and suck on her clitoris. Make love to her clitoris – sucking and nuzzling with your mouth while filling her wet puss with Big Boss. Watch as her body arches, shakes and moans and retreats to a quiver as you deliver her to the gates of orgasmic heaven.