Guys are very predicable. A woman knows if she cooks a good meal and makes a lot of it, a man will gorge and be in his glory. She know that if she wears something tight, or sheer, or allowing just enough to show but still retaining some modesty, a man will be overcome with desire. She also knows if she keeps matters simple, a man will be pleased as all hell. On the other hand a man is totally confused when it comes to women. Take "cute" for instance. I look at a baby and evaluate the child. Yep everything looks normal, good looking kid. A woman goes all goo goo. Isn't he the cutest? Then I see another baby. Wow, that kid has kinda a big head. The womans response, OMG he's adorable, such a cutie! Hmm, missed that one! Then we have hair color. That girls hair looks kinda purple to me. But not to her. Its "Black cherry" and she absolutely loves it! She shaved the whole back half of her head, I think it looks kinda hideous. To her its such a "cute" cut. Getting my drift? Then we have a man trying to be romantic. He really applies himself and uses his imagination overtime. He leaves little notes, throws in subtle compliments. Flirts throughout the day. Takes her to a quiet restaurant and sits there and looks at her like shes the world in his eyes. Though she loved it, a week later he gets no recognition for his efforts, she's mad because he doesn't want to go to J.C. Penneys to see the shoes that are on sale. What she thinks is erotic, he thinks is kinda lame. He's thinking "stimulating", she thinking "sensual". Are we ever going to be on the same page?