Went looking in Borders and B&N for a book for creating Cognos / Daptiv reports, which I found only one, that a coworker already has. Then I came to the realization that there are so few books on Cognos because there are few who understand it. Which doesn't even mention repeater tables, something I need help with... I have become the dept expert since I know more than most on the report building side.
Ha! Thought this was going to be boring! Also perused the self-help and relationship aisles for a book about me or how I can improve on letting go of the walls I put up after the evil one of 10+ years ago. Still traumatized by it, and have learned since that point to be emotionally unavailable so I can't fall under a controlling woman again.
Picked up Emotional 'Availability.' I sort of fell into the Romeo and Emotional Einstein have yet to read much this weekend.
She walked in the door about 3am without calling or txting me. I was actually still up, and she thought by now I was asleep and she would surprise me. I had discussed with her about 3 weeks ago about not walking in unannounced. Technically she's keyed since I have her a code to the front door deadbolt. But I specifically said no surprises and call/txt before you come so I will know. She was going to leave, since I was grumpy that she did that. But I didn't want her to leave, just understand that if I had no idea she was coming over, I could perceive her bending over to kiss me as an intruder coming to stab me and I could have accidentally hurt her thinking I was being burglarized. Was not in mood for sex after that.