I knew that the one night stand thing wasn't my thing...from experience. I figured if I could find someone whose company I enjoyed, someone to hang with from time to time, someone to go out to eat with or watch a movie so I wouldn't have to go alone would be fun. I have guy friends too, but sometimes, I'd rather have female companionship. I am a very sexual person, so my idea has been that a 'friend with benefits' would be the thing to try. I've heard of others doing this, and it sounded intriguing.
Over the course of time, I've found a couple of women whose company I really enjoyed. I liked their sense of humor...they were intelligent, and I enjoyed hanging out with them. I need to say that I wasn't seeing these women at the same time. They were also very good in bed. It seemed like I had found what I was looking for.
I made it very clear up front what I was looking for, and what I wasn't. In both cases, however, very quickly both women wanted it to become very serious...talking about long-term relationships and wanted to spend more and more time together. I had a discussion with each about backing it off, and reminding them of the arrangements we had made, neither one liked it. It made me wonder if the 'friends with benefits' thing is just a myth. If not, I'm wondering how to actually pull it off successfully. I'm not against things getting serious if the right person came along...but for now, I'd like to find a great fuck buddy and just enjoy my life, and let them enjoy theirs...and sometimes enjoy each other's.
Feeling a bit like Indiana Jones....the quest continues...
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