I also think many people have an unhealthy preoccupation with sex. I love this quote from C.S. Lewis talking about our preoccupation with sex and comparing it to food:
"There is nothing to be ashamed of in enjoying your food: there would be everything to be ashamed of if half the world made food the main interest of their lives and spent their time looking at pictures of food and dribbling and smacking their lips.”
I have to agree with him. I believe sex was meant to be a beautiful thing between two people who are in a committed relationship (preferably marriage on on your way to it). It is not mean to be a purely physical act although at times it may be more physical and other times more emotional. But it should be part of something bigger not an end unto itself. Otherwise I see it as another escape like drinking too much or using drugs. Is it a good thing, a great thing? Yes! Is is an end unto itself? I say no. That is why I will never understand people in "open" relationships who allow each other to have sex with other people or "swingers" who gather for that very purpose. Even a threesome as I could never give myself sexually to more than one woman whom I'm in a serious relationship with. It would bother me greatly to share her with anyone else. I feel for lonely married people who aren't getting any. Divorce is not always easy and so they suffer. I know because I've been there. I was in a 19 year marriage with very little sex and none the last 8 years. My right hand became my sex partner but I never hooked up with another woman. As long as I was married to her it was her or no one.
It's been an interesting few days since joining this site. I'm sticking around but I'm not going to be active in all the forums and such. The Live Feed drives me nuts as I see so many gorgeous pictures but could spend all my time complimenting each one and well I'd get nothing else done.
So why am I on here? Mostly for fun and maybe some sexy chat with the right women. Like some of you this is as close as I get these days. It's nice to get the compliments and at least try and believe that were I to meet these same women in real life they'd want to get to know me.
Nothing I said was meant to offend anyone who believes differently. Just sharing my opinion. :)