We were invited to meet Americans that still live in the area, after the post closed here. My husband didn´t really feel like going, but I talked him into it.
I love meeting new people. So we went to the bar and it turned out to be a really fun evening. All together about 20 people, all different, guys and girls, black and white, a good mix and a lot of laughter. We made a date 2 weeks later, to all meet again. Exchanged phone numbers and all.
On the way home my husband said, it was a good idea to meet them.
Around midnight we arrived at home. I checked my Facebook and already had a friends request from a guy I met that evening. I excepted and forgot about him. The next evening I had a message from him, lets call him J. He wrote about how glad he was to meet everybody and how he was looking forward to meet again soon.
From that night on, we chatted every night, just casual and innocent. One night I told him, I have to go take a bath and be online again later. He asked if he could help me, and I said sure come on over. He knew I am married and so is he. Later that night he told me how he wished he could take the bath with me, and he jerked of thinking about it. I was shocked but it also made me feel desirable. I was really overweight at that time and thought nobody could want me.
Of course my husband told me that I was sexy, but I didn´t believe it. And now this stranger told me the same wow.
We chatted more and more and it turned into really hot sex chat. He wrote me sexy stories about how we would do it and it turned me on so much, I constantly wanted sex with my husband. He was very happy that I found my sex drive. I told him about J and he said as long as it is only chat, he doesn´t care. But I am never allowed to meet him alone or do cam.
I could not wait to meet at the bar again. It took me extra long getting ready, make up and hair. I was so exited. He was already waiting. By the way, I love how Americans all hug instead of just saying hello, like Germans. So I got a tight hug from him and loved it. We kept chatting for 6 month, till his wife found out and made him stop. I hated it, but I lost 45 pounds while we chatted and my sex drive was alive.