I have had a sexually exciting life, but never with a partner. i have been able to explore all kinds of fantasies with strangers or friends but I have never been able to enjoy this same liberty with a partner. In the younger years this could be attributable to me. the thought of sharing a partner filled me with nerves at the thought of being infrior to any external input. I now appreciate the importance of love and trust but cannot seem to engage my poartner in a similar mentality. She is bueatiful and I am modestly handsome so we have enough to offer, in my opinion. But how do I introduce this to the relationship without the fear of making her feel it is necessay to keep me rather then a bit of experimental fun with nothing more than sex as the agenda?