Is it rue that "Every Mans Fantasy" is to be with two women at the same time? My sister told me every man she's been has asked her for a three sum. I have a few friends I know have given there man a three sum for his birthday . My best friend had a three sum with her husband for a going away to jail gift. I started to prepare myself for the possibility of having to share my man with another woman. I started fantasizing about having one so I would know what to do if it ever came to it. It almost became a ritual in my head every time I had sex I imagined it was with a woman. Surprisingly, I was able to get off allot quicker than normal.
Time past, birthdays past, x-mas was over and still no mention of a three-sum. Before I knew it having a three sum was a "Fantasy Of Mine". It didn't become a problem until it turned to day dreaming when no one else was around, and i was now masturbating to the thought of being with another woman. I started questioning my sexuality which made me insecure with my boyfriend, which made our sex life suffer. Not for long though we broke up.
That's when I decided I had to have a three sum before I got in another relationship.
I have 4 children, two of my kids are twin 16 year old boys . Me and there dad have always been best friends never really been boy/girlfriend before. Somehow we ended up single at the same time for a quick minute so Ihooked up with him one night, we got pretty fucked up. We may have had a few pills and a lil powder ,
which always leads to us marathon fucking the whole weekend without sleep.....Anyways he always brags to me about how often him and his girl have three sums. Not to mention, I have met the one of the girls that be at their house when i pick my kids up , so I know it's a common event in their house.......
And when I say he would brag that equals= he gave me allot of details of their encounters.
So obviously, this made the fantasies I was already having about three sum intensify x's ten.
So I, asked him to have a one with me and another girl...
I thought he knew what he was doing telling me all them details. That's why I was a little taken back by his response
which was "Hell Nah"..
Me being his baby momma got mad, and I'm thinking what the fuck u mean, u do it wit your girl, and she ain't got shit on me,
I thought we was better than that... I was pissed and demanded an explanation.
So he e told me , I am like 3 women in 1 in when it comes to sex.....he said there's no need for an extra person because I am capable of keeping his mind solely on me. He then went on to tell me how the chick him and his girl would hook up with played roles during there "Parties" and apparently her role was to be his girlfriend and his girlfriend would act like she was me. to the point that he would call her my name during sex, and she let him and totally played the part.
That was the 1st time a man turned down my request for a threesum.
The next time was my my new boyfriend who was the 1st Dominican I had ever fucked with.
(I thought he was black man that could speak Spanish, he tricked me on that one)
We met online he lived on the east coast and me in California so we would web chat, have web cam sex
(1st person i ever did that with) for the 1st 6 months. and then I ended up flying to the east coast to meet him......
So, let me tell you I've always thought I was pretty freaky but boy did he open my eyes.....
(in a good way) He was nasty as fuck, and I loved it He was the 1st man to ever fuck my my asshole and bust it wide open
(which he did the 1st night we met because i started my period on the plane ride there)...
When I say busting my ass wide open i mean = it was Gaping.... The 1st man to spit in my face during sex,
slap me across the face during sex, 1st to force me to my knees and fuck my throat until i would throw up on his dick,
1st to force me to hold my mouth open for him to spit inside of it while on top of me fucking
and making me swallow it.....1st man to ever piss all over my body force me to my knees to fuck me doggy
while drenched in his urine. And the 1st and still only to make me sit in dirt while he pissed inside of my mouth.
And it may sound weird,,,but I fuckin loved it.......like to a point that it made me love him like way to much..
it didn't take long for me to adjust to being his ,,,"Nasty little white slut bitch.."
Before i met him, I hated sucking dick , Somehow he was able to change that.
he made me realize how much i would rather satisfy than be satisfied.
to the point that i just wanted to suck his dick all the time.
and when I say suck , I mean put some heels on wit a slutty outfit get on my knees ,
and give his dick a full blown Jacuzzi wash.
To this day , nothing has ever made my pussy get as wet as it gets when I'm sucking dick.
After about 2 years we ended up getting engaged and I moved to Florida from California with him ....he was always worried about our sex changing if we moved together but I was like so turned on by this new outlook i had on sex that i felt like i had 20 years of boring sex to make up for and was so in love with him I would never turn him down.
When he made it home from work I would meet him at the door drop to my knees and suck him until he would cum.
Serve him dinner and let him go to sleep.
One day he came home and told me he didn't feel comfortable letting me do that because
he would be to tired after work to satisfy me...
funny thing is , it didn't bother me at all.
I felt satisfied off of satisfying him.
as long as i got to swallow his cum every time i sucked his dick i was happy.
For me it was like alright I' m sucking your dick and I'm not stopping til i swallow your cum
knowing he was not the type that can go a 2nd round,
a few times he tried to stop me before he was gonna cum
so we could fuck but i didn't want to stop.i guess he started feeling guilty
that he wasn't satisfying me sexually ,
so would turn me down when i tried to give him head
no matter how many times i told him it didn't bother me,
It didn't take long for me to realize how little sex we where having ,
when he stopped letting me suck his dick.,
then it became a problem, then an argument, which lead to fighting every night.
I offered to bring another woman into the mix to spice things up because at that point i didn't know how to fix it.
That's when I was denied a 3 sum for the 2nd time.....
I'm like WTF,we watch girl on girl porn all the time,
I see how much he likes that shit, So I ask him to explain
and he says i would not be able to find another woman to do what we do with us
and if he cant satisfy me why would he wanna try to satisfy someone else.
I was pretty confused...I'm thinking shit you turnt me out in no time,
we wont have a problem with that....he still said no.
Sex continued to suck.I told him one day if we couldn't have
sex at est once a week, that i was gonna go back to California.
I started having sex at 13 and I was 30 when i met him.
so all those years i was having sex I never enjoyed it.I didn't know i could.
He showed me how to open myself completely
and finally knew what I liked.I was mad it took me so long to figure out what i liked .
But even madder that when we would have sex ,i it started feeling as empty as it did before I met him
I warned him a few more times then waited 4 weeks for something to change,
but it didn't so 6 months after i moved across the country to be with him ,
I packed all my belongings got in my car and drove home to California .
It took me 5 days to get back and on the 3rd day he realized I was gone.
so we didn't talk for a few weeks since he felt I just walked out on him,
though I gave him plenty of warnings. Eventually he called back,
and decided to tell me that I had been the only woman he has ever done any
of the sexual things we did with. and before me it was just fantasies ,
he had never been comfortable enough with any other woman.
to attempt the things he did with me. And if he could t that i wouldn't be satisfied .
Which explains why he turned down the three sum .. But somehow made me the one at blame ,
like I was some type of sadistic nympho that could never be satisfied....
...after we hung up and i had some time to think...
I realized I never told him he was the 1st man to do those things to me.....
..So I guess that did make me look like a sex crazed maniac..
.I know now that I would rather be a sex crazed maniac and experience
sex the way i do now then to go back to the emptiness sex made me feel all of those years before him...