I've been speaking a lot with a few female members via pm, email and msn and we appear to have a lot in common.
Mostly, we are all in our 30's, have all skewed ideas of what we look like and we have pic threads on here. We have been discussing what posting on SF has done for us and I'd like to talk about it now.
I've said before that I was the most unlikely person to ever post pics of myself on any site never mind naked ones on a sex forum!
I've relayed how I came to post them and why I left them up but i've never spoken of why I continue to take them and continue to post them.
I think a lot of people assume that you have to be really confident to post pictures of yourself, confident in your look and body but you know, thats really not the case.
When I first posted pics, I posted explicit close ups of my pussy and breasts. I thought they were my best features lol so took the pics and posted them.
I had requests mostly from Ted to be fair, to show more of my body. I replied at the start that I was body conscious so probably wouldnt post them, but, I took a few more "daring" ones.
Now daring to some girls is showing their genetalia, but daring to me was showing me. how warped is that logic!
As the comments on my thread got more and more, I started to think that maybe I wasnt as bad as I thought I was. I posted some of me sitting on a chair with my legs to the side (pics taken for Pandora with the scottish flag) and my pm box went crazy! I had so many pm's complimenting me on my "gorgeous" legs
I couldnt believe it as my legs and ass are my biggest problems (to me) and I honestly didnt think anyone would pay them any attention, instead focusing on my breasts which were prevelant in the pictures.
Because I had such comments, I thought i'd dig out some miniskirts that I had worn but kept from a few years ago (well quite a few years ago!) and team them with my favourite heels for some more pictures.
I took the pictures and also threw some ass ones in to see what happened! well guess what, my pm box and comments went mental again!
Now I honestly am stunned at this as I used to have good legs in my late teens and early 20's but i'm 35 now and have put on approx 30lbs in the last two years. I've really not worn skirts at all as i've been so paranoid at my "fat" legs.
Well since posting my pics, and getting the comments, i'm back to skirts on a daily basis and I feel great about showing them again!
I was speaking to some of the others in my agegroup about this new found confidence and it would appear that we have all been the same.
Every one of us has had confidence issues, poor body image etc and now, we are seeing that what we have is actually attractive. Maybe not to everyone but we realise that we are actually sexy women!
I love that this site has added to my life in this way, I am radiating confidence now in everyday life and into the bargain have lost 18lbs in weight lately! Perhaps its because i'm on here all the time and not eating the junk that I did in the evenings or perhaps its because I feel a lot sexier and attractive therefore am wearing clothes that I used to love and subconsciously not eating the crap that I used to but something is happening and i'm delighted.
Two of the other 30 somethings have lost weight too and they are also radiating confidence as a result of their threads and the comments on it.
so I guess, i just wanted to say that SF has given me back something that I was seriously lacking in for two years and the members that comment on my thread and have it sitting where it is, are to be Thanked so much!
Ted, if you are reading this, you know that it was you that used to pester me for different pictures, for body ones that I would never post. Well thank you for bugging me and making me do it as without your pestering, i'd have a crap thread full of pussy and nipple with no hint of me or my personality what so ever.
I know i'm no oil painting, but I feel reasonably confident that i'm not what I thought I was.
My signature has proved true, there is nothing more sexy about a woman than confidence.
I guess now that us 30 something girls have confidence, then it must mean that we are now definately considered sexy!
So thank you SF for the gift you have given to us and Thank you to the lovely members that have helped to make us feel sexy and attractive!
I love you all and I know that my fellow girls do too!
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