I remember the first time I had oral sex performed on me, It was on my boyfriends bathroom floor and it was on my birthday! Oh what a gift he gave me, it was a gift that i’ll remember every time I have oral sex, for the rest of my life.
I exposed myself that day and put my trust into my boyfriend. Opening your legs to let someone stare intensely at you, something that you aren’t used to doing and parts that you ardent used to exposing! its a big step indeed...... but oh, once he started, well I never looked back!
I didn’t reciprocate that day that I remember but I remember telling all of my friends and his stepmother all about it! I felt like I was the first girl in the world to have had it.
I don’t recall the first Blow-job I gave, I do know that i’ve given zillions of them over the last 20 years though. Its an intimate act for sure but one that I find very easy to give and not just to someone i’m in a relationship with, There is a thread at the minute here asking about random blow-jobs and I posted on it to say that i’m sure i’ve “performed” them on more than 30 men. Thinking about it after, I’m sure its been much more than 30 men.
To me, nothing beats oral sex, whether it be with the one you are in love with, or indeed a random lover!
Throughout my 20’s, I was active sexually, I enjoyed myself and was as free as I wanted to be. I always had boyfriends, I was never without one but I was still free to do what I chose. Some may call that slutty, I personally loved it and would never change a thing. I love that I got the chance to do everything that I wanted to do, and I truly believe that sex is something that we are blessed with, something that can be enjoyed without love and its entirely different to making love with a loved one.
I’ve had a conversation this week here about the uncircumcised penis, and most of the men i’ve been with have been uncircumcised. I love to have foreskin to play with! its incredible and a joy. Thank god we don’t slice them off every male in the UK, its a very valuable piece of skin to have!
To take a penis in your hands, preferably flaccid to begin with, to slide your lips over that little piece of skin, sliding your tongue underneath and swirling around that hidden glans..... its delicious and thrilling! slowly exposing the smooth as silk tip as you push that foreskin slowly back, all the while, slipping your tongue around the ridge, flicking the frenulum as you tease and suck the glans with your lips. To feel him grow and stiffen in your mouth, beneath your tongue as you worship his hardening cock. Taking his balls in your hands and cupping them, lightly raking them with your nails, alternating pressures and stroking them slowly.
As he gets to full arousal, pushing that foreskin right back with your lips and settling it into position, as you move your mouth down his shaft, you can still move the foreskin around and its wonderful to feel it as you suck him slowly. Then bringing your hands up to play, move that saliva around his cock, make him slippy and clasp your fingers around him, two hands on his shaft and your mouth around his tip, twisting your hands around him gently, increasing pressure and matching the movements of your lips, oh give him a mouth wank to remember. Make sure you use your fingers to stimulate him and change the sensations for him as you feel his cock twitching under your touch.
I like to use my tongue, flat alongside the underneath of his cock, making huge laps from tip to base, then feather touching his tip as your tongue works him. flicking that frenulum gently and changing direction to swirl around his tip, not forgetting that delicious little slit. By now you will have precum to taste and savour, I love to dip my tongue in and draw it back, letting him see it stringing off my tongue and lips, before closing my mouth over him again to spread it nicely around him. Enclosing him in the warmth of my mouth as I take him in deep, exposing him to the ripples and sensations of my palate, the soft flesh of my cheeks and my tongue firm under him.
I like to deepthroat (cock size permitting) however i’m not into gagging or having him make me wretch, any thrusting from a guy and i’ll withdraw from his cock. If I’m taking him into my mouth, then I expect to be in charge, I don’t like to be thrust into, it makes me feel as though i’m not doing a good enough job myself. Fair enough he may be carried away but a gentle placement of my hands on his hips and a push back is usually enough to stop that.
I always look up at the guy as I’ve got him in my mouth, eye contact is a must, you’re enjoying what you are doing so show him! Engage in eye contact and let him know that you are worshipping his cock.
There is much play to be had with a cock in your mouth, its truly delicious and I’m all for lavishing the attention fully on him.
Of course i’m also all for having attention lavished on me!
I adore having a mouth butterfly kisses around my lips, gently sucking them and drawing them into his mouth, his tongue slipping and probing around them and then dipping into my inner core. Searching out my clitoris and pushing back the hood with the tip of his tongue, gently swirling circles around it and teasing me. I love to feel him slide along between my inner and outer labia, that little corridor of flesh contains millions of nerve endings and is often forgotten about but it contains the legs of the clitoris so is an extension of it, if my guy misses that area, i’ll wriggle my hips until he hits the spot and no doubt i’ll moan so he knows to lavish a little more attention there!
I like him to introduce his fingers and to slide one around my opening, teasing the muscles there and setting the nerve endings on fire, my clit will shudder for sure as I feel myself being probed, my juices flowing and I know that i’ll be raising my hips to meet him! soft flickering kisses along the length of my pussy, long slow laps with the flat of his tongue, little flicks with the tip of his tongue oh all of them send me crazy! I’ve never really noticed a tongue working its way into my vagina though, its just not the same as fingers for me! I’d rather have the tongue on the outside and fingers inside, each to their own but thats my personal preference, perhaps i’ve never had a man........ or woman fuck me with a long enough tongue to make a difference!
I’ve had a trip or two to ladyland as you know if you’ve read my blogs before and the pleasure of licking another female was incredible, the delicious scent of arousal, that sweet initial flush of juice, the taste from deep within her pussy as she becomes more and more aroused and finally the fullsome tasting fluid that arrives with her orgasm. To have felt her pussy fluttering her orgasm into my mouth, spasming on my fingers as they were inside her and her labia engorged and swollen, was enough to make me want to revisit that again and again! oh its to be savoured for sure! I’d recommend it to any girl!
I’ve loved oral sex since my first experience, even a hand-job will turn into a blow-job as I can’t bear to not take it into my mouth, it seems a terrible waste not to!
When it comes to the final act, the orgasm, i’m always ready to receive that juice, I figure that i may as well have it and swallow it, as i’d be pretty peeved if a guy went down on me, then turned on my orgasm and spat down onto the floor! lol
I love to feel the cock pumping and shooting that cum onto my tongue, into my throat, warm and salty, fluid and divine.
This is when you should remember to look at your partner, see that orgasm in their face and let him know that you love him in your mouth, you want to receive his cum and you can show him how he looks as he spurts into you.
If you don’t wish to swallow, well at least put on a good show for him, let it pour out of your mouth, down your tongue, onto your chin or breasts and he’ll be so thrilled to see that, that we wont notice you’ve swallowed none of it!
So there you have it, my take on Oral sex and don’t forget to incorporate props next time you engage, my favourites are a string of pearls, food obviously, champagne, ice-cubes, sweeties, chocolate oh the possibilities are endless!
Enjoy and get out there and work those jaws!
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