When i was married to my x, the first time i asked her if she wanted to try anal sex, she said yes she loves anal sex. I was excited and got the lube, she told me, BUT, If im going to let you have anal sex with me, you have to let me play with your ass. I was young, 18 and unsure if i wanted this or not, but i said ok sounds fair. she started with a finger and slowly rubbed my ass, it felt good, i liked it alot, then she started stroking my cock, and that felt great. she removed her finger and slid 2 in, then 3, at 3 it stung a little bit but was still feeling good, she started pulling on my balls a little bit which felt great. she removed her fingers and started stoking my cock and pulling on my balls, and that i really liked, she asked me to roll over, at this point i was willing to try nearly anything she wanted so i did. I was laying face down, ass up, she was pulling on my balls, and stoking my cock, then she started to lick my ass which nearly pushed me over the edge, i told her it was too much that i was going to cum, so she stopped playing with my cock and balls and kept licking my ass, this was amazing, i could feel her doing something but i wasnt sure what it was, she blew cold air on my asshole and then it felt cold and wet, i wasnt sure what it was. she grabbed my balls and i could feel something press against my ass, i wasnt sure what it was, but it wasnt a finger, and it felt great. so i pushed back just a bit which she took as her sign, she pulled on my balls and pushed forward as i was pushing back into her, and she slipped a double ended dildo in my ass, it was one i bought for her with the intent of putting it in her pussy and ass at the same time. little did i know she was going to put it in my ass first.she stated moving it in and out of me, it felt good but hurt at the same time. THEN something happened, she hit something, i wasnt sure what it was at the time but i shot a huge load of precum out of my cock and it felt so fucking good, she kept hitting that angel, and i was in heaven. with that i started rocking back and forth a bit more, to see if more would feel good, she asked me if iwas sure, and i was. so she started fucking me with it harder and deeper, it didnt feel like it went much deeper in. but the great sensation was gone, and a different great sensation was there. so i was telling her harder, harder, deeper deeper, and she was going to town, she asked me to roll over again, so she could watch my face as she did it, at that point i could kind of see how much of that dildo was out of me, and it was about 2 hand widths of an 18 inch dildo, i told her more more, and she did, she then touched my cock with one hand and i shot a huge load that landed right in my face, as she slowly pulled out the dildo. by the time we were done, she had 12 inches in me, and i had a face full of cum which she crawled up and started cleaning off me with kisses. it was the best sexual experience i have had up until that time in my life, and probably top 10 to date, and i didnt even get to fuck her in the ass, till later that night.