We have stumbled on to this site for our own reasons. A few of my close friends know of my marriage, which really sucks. Yesterday was my birthday. No big deal to me, just another day. My so called husband had the day off too. He said he was going to do a few errons. Never seen him the rest of the day. My kids took me out to dinner which was nice. I can always depend on my kids to be there but not my so called husband.
I understand we have our issues but there is that one role that still needs to be played. The Spouse.
I took him out for his birthday a few weeks ago and this is what I get in return. It's not the only thing he has done. I have had 3 surgeries over the last two years. He was there 1 out of 3. The last one he had the nerve to ask if he can stay home and sleep. As you can imagine you know how I felt. I walked away madder then the hatter.
I write this because your relationship may be far on the back burner but a role still has to be played.
I have always told my so called husband that action speaks louder then words. And they do.
This is to let those who read this and are in a type of relationship that stinks. Don't give up the role of the significant other until you actually get out of it all together. Be the person that still cares and show it until the end.