I have a male supervisor that has been screwing our office manager for years, she is single and he is married. They try to keep it hush hush but everyone except our boss knows, he just doesn't pay attention. She came to me one day and was upset about their fling and in the course of the conversation I told her that everyone knows and she was taken back by it. She thought they had hid it well but that isn't thing I am talking about.
The messed up part about all this is during the Holiday's we have an office Xmas party every year. He always bring his wife and the office mgr will sit near them and play all nicey nice with his wife. She chats with her like they were just best buds. I really think that is just messed up! He, according to the office mgr, is just with his wife until his high school age daughter is done with school. I don't believe it but she is clutching to it. I just couldn't imagine doing something like that to my wife. It is bad enough to be screwing around on her and yet having the balls to sit near his mistress at the party is just low.
My wife thinks the wife just doesn't give to shits. He makes pretty good coin and she only works part time but they live pretty different lives. She is engulfed in they're kids and he does almost nothing with her. He will tell me about the occasion that they do things together but it is far between.
Just kinda screwed up but not my nasty soup to live in.