Need some advice ...
Posted Wed Aug 24, 2011 12:06 AM
Turns out she had told him about us, and that I would have to like him for things to develop further between them. She said he was pretty shocked by the whole thing, asking lots of questions about me, and after putting him at ease he eventually said ok. We had a great time together, a great dinner with some good wine listening to some good music. He was really good looking, in good shape, a bit on the shy side, but it was a bit awkward because he kept checking me out more than my gf and I could tell he was really turned on hoping for something more to happen. Guys are just so predictable.
After some more wine my gf broke the ice by telling us that it was ok if we both spend the night there cause we had so much to drink. I could see he was nervous, and can only imagine what was going through his mind, and then he got real quiet when my gf said she and I would share her bed and he could sleep on the couch in the living room. He looked so sad, like a lost puppy, it was kinda mean but funny too. So after some more talking off we went to bed, after she gave him a big hug and a long kiss goodnight, right in front of me.
When we got into the bedroom she was all hot and bothered and so we got into it on her bed, making the occasional noise that would suggest to him what might be happening in the bedrrom. We had a bet on whether he would just burst in on us, but he was a perfect gentleman about the situation. So after a half hour, during which we went down on each other to warm things up, we quietly opened the door of the bedroom to look in on him. There he was lying on the couch slowly playing with what was a real nice big cock, We looked at each other, smiled, and my gf went over and asked him to join us in the bedroom.
We had a great time, for him what looked like the best time of his life, and I even let him fuck me a little while going down on my gf. I usually don't do that right away but he was real nice and I figured this might be the start of a longer relationship. When my gf came from me eating her, he was really fucking me hard and I could tell he vwas about to come, so I pulled myself away from him just in time, which he didnt expect, and he came hard shooting long jets of cum on both of us, which I think really embarrassed him. After that we were all pretty tired and went to sleep on her bed with my gf in between the two of us. I woke up later in the middle of the night when he started fucking my gf again, and then one more time that morning, while she went down on me. I thought we all had a really great time.
So here is my problem. Today he calls me, not sure how he got my number, and tells me that he needs to see me alone. Since that night he can't get me out of his head, he can't sleep, just keeps thinking about how I pulled away from him, and he figures that if we get together and have sex, just him and I, that it will work things out and make him feel better. He says he is also crazy about my gf, and wants to keep going out with her, but knows that it will be a problem if he keeps obsessing like that about me. He also does not want me to tell my gf because she might think that he likes me more than her, but if the two of us have sex together then he's fine if the three of us get together again, as long as I dont pull away from him again.
So what should I do? Is this just a weird guy thing?
Posted Wed Aug 24, 2011 12:33 AM
Posted Wed Aug 24, 2011 02:11 AM
Posted Wed Aug 24, 2011 02:56 AM
Honestly??? I would probably tell my G/F and see what she has to say.
Posted Wed Aug 24, 2011 01:58 PM
No sense in messing up a good thing. Threesomes can get complicated like that.
Posted Wed Aug 24, 2011 11:03 PM
Posted Thu Aug 25, 2011 11:32 AM
So we decided that the best thing was to let him have his way, but only on our terms, and then see if everything sorted itself out after that. He is a really nice guy, and it’s probably some sort of ego thing, or maybe shy about coming like that, and hopefully we can put it behind us. The plan is for me to invite him over to my place one afternoon this weekend, but only if he is willing to accept my (our) terms – meaning a tantric initiation for him. That way he can get himself off with me, which takes care of his issue, while I try to get him into tantric sex, which my gf is also dying to try, and which would be great for me too if he can be taught the ways.
We also decided that my gf would unexpectedly show up at my place a few hours after him, so that we can then get everything on the table and talk it all through together.
Will keep you posted.
Posted Thu Aug 25, 2011 07:39 PM
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