got told to stop in first time sex?
Posted Mon Sep 05, 2011 06:44 AM
i didn't talk to her about it, which maybe i should have done, but why would she want me to stop? i've never been in that situation before, niether of us are virgins but i know she hasnt had sex in a while.
Posted Mon Sep 05, 2011 06:57 AM
Posted Mon Sep 05, 2011 07:12 AM
Posted Mon Sep 05, 2011 07:28 AM
Yeah i guess maybe in pain a little? it was hard to tell, just clenching her body and never seemed like she wanted to be having sex at any point.
And i wouldn't say she was uninterested at all, she was the one initially starting it all.
This post has been edited by TheColts: Mon Sep 05, 2011 07:29 AM
Posted Mon Sep 05, 2011 10:01 AM
Posted Tue Sep 06, 2011 10:21 AM
Posted Thu Sep 08, 2011 05:31 AM
It takes a girl longer to become ready from my experience. A guy just has to get hard.
Did you do an foreplay before?
Whatever the reason, the most important thing to do is talk to her, instead of trying to second guess.
Posted Thu Sep 08, 2011 08:19 PM
As others have posted, you should talk to your girlfriend and find out if you did something wrong or put her in the wrong mood.
Obviously she has been in other relationships. Did they turn out bad? Did you remind her somehow of a negative experience? Talk about it and try to differentiate yourself from past experiences she has had.
The fact that you were aware enough of her feelings puts you way ahead of the vast majority of guys out there, so you should be successful at re-setting the situation.
If she just wasn't feeling well, be understanding and she will appreciate it.
Posted Thu Sep 08, 2011 09:43 PM