Is sex better for guys without condomn?
Posted Fri Sep 16, 2011 11:03 PM
The one time i did have sex and didn't have to pay for it i was very drunk at the time but she gave me a BJ without a rubber and i was quite surprised by the sensation i could definetly feel that! So I'm wondering is intercourse much the same? And am i the only guy that thinks sex with a condomn is completely pointless?
Posted Fri Sep 16, 2011 11:44 PM
Wearing a condom is something that I'll only do if I believe that it will help me to keep from getting and STI's or if I think that having sex with her might result in her getting pregnant before I'm ready to have kids.
Beyond that I won't consider wearing a condom because I personally think that having sex with a woman is better without a condom than with one.
That's just me and I how I think and feel about it. Other people may have different ideas and opinions though.
Posted Fri Sep 16, 2011 11:45 PM
I wouldn't say the difference is THAT extreme though. I'm married so we don't really use condoms but I would say the most off putting thing is the time it takes getting it on - it just distracts from the moment.
However, don't EVER be tempted to go without - pregancy and STI's are a very real risk, even just the once. Take a look through some topics on here and you'll see people that "just did it the once"
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edit: or lucky lol
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Posted Mon Sep 19, 2011 12:30 PM
We women get a lot of stimulation on the inside, too, and can definitely tell the difference between bare skin and a condom... and bare skin feels so much better. Also, condoms restrict spontaneity, such as switching between oral, vaginal, and mutual masturbation during play. Not to mention the impact it has upon a male partner's erection. Trust me that we notice. When having sex with a condom-bearing partner, I have to focus some of my attention on whether the condom is intact, how my partner's erection is doing, etc. and those issues detract from my sheer enjoyment.
That said, Mr.DE and I are exclusive to each other in going bareback. He is sterilized and I am looking at that for myself, now that we are opening ourselves to additional partners. However, pregnancy is not the only concern that drives us to use condoms.
Condoms might interfere a little with the pleasure of sex, but getting a preventable infection because we wanted to go bareback would interfere a lot with the pleasure.
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Posted Mon Sep 19, 2011 05:01 PM
When I did wear one I didn't notice THAT big of a difference, get the super thin ones and all is good.
I too got snipped years ago so I no longer have to worry about getting the wife pregnant.
Posted Tue Sep 27, 2011 06:23 PM
i tease my body a lot, (my gf does too!!) working me up many times right up to the edge of an orgasm,
but never goin over the edge
till i just can't hold back anymore after a looooong time.
sure, my condom probably gets filled with lots of pre-cum
and when i finally go all the way, and let myself have an AWESOME orgasm, i shoot off lots and lots of cum
and, wow, that FEELS great.
but since i have a strong sex drive, i don't wanna pull out and could go on for another session,
since i can get lucky enough to feel multiple orgasms.
i guess i should pull out and put on another condom, but if i can remain hard, is it ok to cum
again in the same condom i just used? Or if i screw twice should i put on 2 condoms?
dunno, since 1 condom is enough already, 2 would be real safe sex but wouldn't feel like sex, huh?.