Girlfriend doesn't like my smell anymore? I assume it may be pheromones.
Posted Sat Sep 17, 2011 05:06 PM
Posted Sat Sep 17, 2011 05:20 PM
This is going to take a lot of conversation to work through. Pick a time when you are getting along pretty good or at least not sniping at each other about things. Try not to use accusatory terms - stick with I feel instead of you do or you don't. And listen to her replies.
Posted Sat Sep 17, 2011 06:01 PM
Posted Sat Sep 17, 2011 06:42 PM
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Posted Sat Sep 17, 2011 08:16 PM
but if i hear a great job or something encouraging it usualy changes.
kind alike how your girl says you dont touch her enough. she wants to be touched maybe theres something you want that your not getting making you feel less attracted to them. just a ramble.
Posted Sun Sep 18, 2011 02:27 AM
So you're still really into sex, but not with her....
Today she came home from work, and smelled me, I had showered an hour before. She says she hasn't liked the way I smell lately, and before she loved my smell. Its nothing that I wore, just my natural scent.
I bet I know why you were taking a shower right before she got home from work...and it's not your natural scent she's picking up on.
I immediately said, maybe you aren't attracted to me anymore?
Yeah, THAT'S IT! That's why she wants you to touch her and have sex with her MORE! It's pretty much been established that you're not that into her anymore, so that you would even say this indicates that you're trying to 'lead' her down a train of thought.
And she started complaining about how I dont spend enough time with her. (not something chicks do when they're not attracted to their boyfriends)
What should I do? (Tell the whole story)I don't understand some this like I am sure some of you will. (You're right, but you understand more than you're letting on)
We are both 20, she is a scorpio and I am a leo.(The stars are not really in the locations they appear to be when we see then...the light from the celestial bodies can take hours, weeks, years, millions of years to get here, so where they appear now is where they were a looooong time ago)
Our sex life used to be amazing, and now I don't want it from her.(Then why are you with her and not the girl you're banging and showering up after before she gets home?)
I'm going to go out on a limb here and venture from your profile stating "Living Together" means that you're living either in your gf's apartment or it's both but you can't maintain everything fiscally without her income. You're keeping her around to keep your life on even keel...she's been part of it for so long and there's a safety in familiarity that you are reticent to give up. Yet, you freely admit that you're not into her. So, tell her you want to share the pad, be roomies, and see other people.
Why do I presume so much? Because the pimp hand is not strong in you...
You're chronology is a little hard to decipher. Ok, so a year ago, you just stopped being into her sexually to the same degree that you did before. More recently, she's stopped liking how you smell. Somewhere in the past 7 years (), she decided that she wishes you'd touch her more.
What kind of diagnosis could you possibly expect from this batch of info?
Here's what I think would shed light on your query:
If you're not that into her sexually, why do you give a shit if she likes your smell or not?
This post has been edited by ilyushin79: Sun Sep 18, 2011 02:29 AM