Posted Tue Mar 27, 2007 04:23 PM
My bf really wants to make me orgasm but I have to be super relaxed with someone in order toi let go. And even if I'm comfortable enough with them, it has to be very particular movements they use and I need to be somewhere that's quiet, somewhere I can focus, concentrate on that 'elusive' orgasm.
It's rather annoying though, isn't it? So are other women out there like me? Just to make me feel better, how do you and your partner deal with it?
Posted Tue Mar 27, 2007 04:40 PM
Posted Tue Mar 27, 2007 06:26 PM
I love to relax and enjoy all the sensations during lovemaking. Think of the orgasm is just another symptom of feeling good, not all the feeling good as the symptoms that lead to the end result "orgasm".
Hope that made sense.
Posted Tue Mar 27, 2007 07:43 PM
Posted Tue Mar 27, 2007 07:51 PM
But enjoy the trip, make detours, stop along the way. Enjoy the trip.
Be there, enjoy being there, traveling with your partner....I adore those evenings, days, when everything intermingles n things just...flow.
Lovely that isn´t it?
and a big hooray for Girljo, and for Q, n for all the adorablw women out there.
Posted Wed Mar 28, 2007 12:15 AM
Try masturbating when he is with you.
Guide him and show him the motions that you need, like taking his hand in yours or whatever.
Details when I have had some sleep.
Posted Wed Mar 28, 2007 03:29 AM
Posted Fri May 25, 2007 11:56 AM
Relax and have fun!
Posted Fri May 25, 2007 01:32 PM
What's with all my old threads being revived? Blast from the past.