Advice on my best friend....
Posted Sun Apr 01, 2007 12:10 PM
Posted Sun Apr 01, 2007 12:24 PM
That's a tough call. Being bisexual, I ask all my friends that I'm attracted to, but, as a bi female, I don't suffer the risks that a homosexual male does.
Good luck to you!
Edit: I'm not saying you're homosexual... I'm saying that if he thought you were, it may ruin the friendship, as opposed to a homosexual or bi woman. Women with other women don't seem to suffer the same social stima that prevents males from even mentioning this kind of desire to one another, especially a good friend.
Posted Sun Apr 01, 2007 12:29 PM
Posted Sun Apr 01, 2007 12:38 PM
Sexuality is complicated!
That said, it's also a sensitive topic...many men are very paranoid about being considered gay, or less "manly" in any way. I'm not quite sure the best way to broach the subject but just be sensitive to it...you might expect to get a weird reaction. It's important to let the other person know that either way it's not a big deal. I once had a guy approach me about mutual masturbation and I wasn't interested...and after that I think he was paranoid that I thought he was gay or something...even though I didn't think that.
Posted Sun Apr 01, 2007 12:51 PM
Posted Sun Apr 01, 2007 01:08 PM
Posted Mon Apr 02, 2007 04:33 AM
Posted Mon Apr 02, 2007 04:53 AM
Oh and as for considering yourself as Hetro , Homo , or Bisexual , piss on labels & just consider yourself as human my brother . Labels piss me off & cause more trouble than they're F'n worth ...... Can a Q get an AMEN ! >:]
Posted Mon Apr 02, 2007 05:14 AM
PhoneWhore Karen said:
(((Groan))):icon_scra I hadnt even thought of how phrasing it like that would sound considering this threads topic LoL . Consider me to be unintentional comedic relief hehe .....
Posted Mon Apr 02, 2007 05:51 AM
Posted Mon Apr 02, 2007 03:02 PM