Posted Sun Oct 09, 2011 08:26 PM
Posted Sun Oct 09, 2011 10:25 PM
Posted Sun Oct 09, 2011 11:35 PM
Your bi. If your afraid of what your friends would think of you If they discovered you were bi - I don't know about your friends but a friend is a friend and good friends are hard to come by. Enjoy your sexuality and let your friends enjoy your friendship!
Posted Sat Oct 22, 2011 01:35 PM
Posted Sun Oct 23, 2011 06:46 AM
Is it the idea that youre into or you genuinely finding guys attractive??
Then again,I'm bi but its the sex mostly i still not actually attracted to men but god i love flirtin,messin with,gettin naked with n fuckin em.lol.
I notice you jump straight in at the deepend wantin anal sex,giving or takin cos if its anal sex you want there plenty women who enjoy it too.
You dont say your afraid how it'll make you feel but that your mates mite find out,you dont have to go public,find someone discreet or who they wont know n just try it.You do sound like your bisexual to me but thats way you sound,only you know for sure but if you into it then try it cos it too damn good to deny yourself enjoyin cor what your friends may think.
Posted Sun Oct 23, 2011 07:46 AM
Posted Sun Oct 23, 2011 02:53 PM
The bi part of me is a very conflicted part. Probably because of my very traditional upbrining but its part of me. It started with curiosity. Something I thought about then eventually tried and I enjoy it. I said it was experimentation but this has gone on for several years and has not gone away. What it comes down to is I like guys and I like girls. I love women gorgeous beautiful women, dating them, fucking them great women are the whole deal. For me guys are strictly sexual. I like playing with another cock. touching it, sucking it and getting fucked by it. I've been with a few different guys but mostly with one guy a friend over the last 6 years. We have a great arrangement. He understands and respects my privacy.We are exclusive to eachother but we are allowed to date people if we choose we just communicate that with each other and stop the sex. Its just sex and friendship nothing more complicated but there is trust. I'm the bottom and hes the top. I am not girly/fem or sissy quite the opposite.It's just my preferred role with a man.
At the same time I've had amazing relationships with women. Exclusive loving amazing passionate relationships. There I take the dominant role.
I do not share my bi sexuality necessarily with the women I date. It is not necessarily relevant. If I got into a serious relationship I guess I would share that. But the point is you would never know.
Really sex is just sex. The weight society puts on the actions is rediculous. Life is short make the most of it and enjoy yourself but also be smart.
I know I go on about myself here but my hope is that might give you some clarity on your options
Posted Sat Dec 03, 2011 10:31 AM
Posted Sat Dec 03, 2011 07:24 PM
Explore it if you feel comfortable and don't worry about what other's think. I used to worry about others but yes true friends don't judge they just are friends. I once cared what family thought too....not so much anymore on that either....
Posted Thu Dec 15, 2011 03:34 AM