Posted Sat Oct 15, 2011 06:59 AM
There was always lots of morning sex. Guys always wake up with hard-ons and the girls are usually wet and ready - that's just how people are. So a lot of sex would happen after sunrise in the bedrooms, or down in the kitchen around coffee. I would go down there to pour myself a cup and one of the guys would come up, hug me from behind, feel me up and just start fucking me. Sex is really contagious, and so anyone else watching that would get horny and wait their turn of find someone else to do it with. This pretty much happened every day.
After that and some breakfast, we would divide up all the chores and the work and get that out of the way. The guys would usually work together on some bigger projects, like clearing paths or building something while we would do stuff inside and work in the garden. Now it gets pretty hot in Hawaii and you also get some heavy rains, and so we would usually break in the afternoon for that and find some shade inside. The guys would come back and people might pair off to be alone together, or take a mid-day "nap", or just hang around watching the rain. There was always more sex on rainy days because there was nothing else to do and its really kinda romantic, especially during a big rainfall. On hot days we would go to the beach and people often had sex there as well, in the shade under a palm tree with the sound of waves pounding, or even while playing in the water.
The evenings were more organized because of dinner, which everyone helped with, or because of a planned party for visitors. The regular evenings were often quieter, with people just relaxing from the work of the day. We gave each other lots of massages, and that would often lead to sex, either somewhere in private or right then and there. I mean its not that people were always doing it out in the open, but we were just a lot less inhibited about everything and when you felt like it you just did it. The other thing is that because you had sex so often, which you get used to and need, doing it like that in the day usually didn't take all that long, you did it, got off, cleaned up and that was it. On the other hand, the parties usually turned into full in orgies, with everyone doing everyone else in some way, and that went on for hours.
The new people were always the big deal, especially if they were new at this kind of lifestyle, and everyone wanted to do them. I remember my first party, apprehensive and shy at first but totally uninhibited after an hour. Its quite an experience having sex like that with so many people one after the other and once you get going its hard to stop because you just want more and more. Its great for the girls because we just keep coming getting wetter and wetter, and its great for the guys because they can take a break, watch and recover after each time they come. As the night goes on, people are fucking each other for longer and longer and the girls, especially the new ones, lose total control which is really hot to watch.
And then there was the night sex in the bedrooms. That happened a fair amount too, again especially if we had new people sleeping with us. I just loved to listen to people fuck like that in the dark, imagining every detail that is happening, peaking and smelling, playing with myself along with them, or jumping in bed with another girl, or even with them. - suz
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Posted Sun Oct 16, 2011 07:45 AM
The only ones you ever hear about in the news are the really crazy ones around some religious cult, or those that have problems with kids, but this place was nothing like that and everyone there was an adult. There were no kids allowed even to visit the place, and the girls that got pregnant had to leave, and the owners were very strict about that, and other rules as well. In terms of protection there wasn't much of that, except that most of the women were on the pill to avoid getting pregnant. But the owners and the core group had been together for a long while and they would always ask the visitors a lot of questions for several days before anyone had any kind of sex with them. I realize this was very risky but I never had any problems, and when I came back to the mainland I got a full test and everything was fine with me. I don't know if this means that the concerns around std's are overblown, or if its not prevalent in this type of group, or if I was just lucky ... but I am a lot more careful about that now, although probably still not as much as I should always be.
In terms of it being a fantasy, well I don't know what to say. For me this is the most natural way to live that I have found, which is why I am sharing it, and as I've said before I think it's how our ancestors have lived up until very recently. It is strange that many would think that living naturally like this with a group of nice people would be so unreal, like a paradise or some fantasy, when in reality everyone can just start living like this if they want to right away. All it really takes is a big place to live with your friends, and its a lot less expensive to live this way because you end up sharing so much more of everything. And like I said there also a lot more sex and a lot less worrying about that. Instead we end up all wrapped around owning and controlling our own things, often frustrated about sex and always concerned about someone cheating. Not sure how we arrived at this point, and not blaming anyone about it either, but for me there are better ways. -suz
Posted Sun Oct 16, 2011 11:01 AM
Still...it makes for an awesome story!
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Posted Sun Oct 16, 2011 11:42 AM
Ah, but there is always Club Discretions... Have you ever been there manik? There are private sex clubs all over America. Why not free love communes?
I can't verify Suzi's story of the commune but I know a lot of tantric practioners who own land in Hawaii....
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Posted Sun Oct 23, 2011 01:51 PM
I can believe this to be a true story. There are many many polyamorous households around, they just aren't advertised to the general public for obvious reasons.
Posted Sun Oct 23, 2011 03:25 PM
I agree that this communal way of living is actually very natural, however strange and exotic it appears to most people (myself included) in a society based on private ownership, competition and selfishness, and with social stigmatization of people who are considered too sexually adventurous...
Communal sex for the win :-)
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Posted Sat Jan 21, 2012 02:27 AM
yes inquiring minds want to know.
Posted Thu May 03, 2012 08:00 PM
If your going littlelui, take me with you.
Posted Thu Jul 18, 2013 10:17 PM