Is being bi a disadvantage?
Posted Sun Oct 16, 2011 11:05 PM
See, in all my years knowing I liked women I've always lived in places and socialised with people who found it to be totally distasteful so it was hard to look for them. I've had very few actual sexual encounters, let alone relationships, with women. I just seem to repel them! So because I like men and women I'm finding it hard to even broach the subject of cybering with a woman because I have so little experience that hasn't come from porn (so TOTALLY the most accurate and realistic portrayal of lesbian sex, right!!!) or lesbian romance novels that I wouldn't know what to say. When I do manage to talk my way into a woman's bed I just kind of follow directions, and the last woman I was with almost leaped out of bed when I told her my experience was about 4 women to about 10 men.
So I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong, I'm in a bit of a cache 22 - can't impress a woman without experience, can't get experience without being with more women =(
I'd love any advice, and also any thoughts on the initial question - do YOU find your bisexuality to be a hindrance? (Yes, guys you can answer too!!)
Posted Mon Oct 17, 2011 06:28 AM
Posted Mon Oct 17, 2011 03:14 PM
Posted Tue Oct 18, 2011 02:38 PM
I've thought about swinging before but I'm not sure if my SO would be interested... although it might be okay, it's something we should probably discuss. I don't think the UK Craig's List site is frequented by enough people to be of much use unfortunately, I only recently discovered it myself, and I'd have to research if there are any free adult dating sites (I have to say I kind of object to paying for dating sites - I can get rejected for free quite easily on my own lol!) but it's definitely something to think about.
Thanks again, and keep the answers coming! I'd love to hear what some ladies thought on the issue too
Posted Tue Oct 18, 2011 03:47 PM
Posted Tue Oct 18, 2011 04:00 PM