Would you swing?
Posted Mon Oct 17, 2011 06:13 AM
Posted Mon Oct 17, 2011 07:01 AM
Never got that lucky back then as I was single but heyho.
Posted Mon Oct 17, 2011 10:45 AM
Posted Mon Oct 17, 2011 11:38 AM
I would love to try a swing but I won't cheat so if she says no that's where it stays.
Posted Mon Oct 17, 2011 12:25 PM
It is fun, but certainly not an activity for everyone.
Posted Mon Oct 17, 2011 01:14 PM
I don't think I want someones eles dick in her pussy
May be if she just suck it while I did her but even that
Might have hard time with plus I know she would never
Do it not even a threesome
Posted Mon Oct 17, 2011 04:06 PM
look at this way, if she was willing to share you with another women and not be worried then why should you worry about another man? I think you are just over thinging this, sit back and enjoy such a beautiful women ,you lucky dog.
Posted Mon Oct 17, 2011 06:20 PM
I know I could handle it once, and would then have to discuss how we felt....sometimes you never know till it actually happens
Posted Tue Oct 18, 2011 06:13 AM
This post has been edited by konfyouzd: Tue Oct 18, 2011 06:14 AM
Posted Tue Oct 18, 2011 11:34 AM
In case you were wondering, the relationship broke up due to other issues unrelated to swinging.
Funny thing is that my current boyfriend was a part of one of the couples we swung with. We became very close friends over the years and just got together romantically about a year ago.
This post has been edited by The Librarian: Tue Oct 18, 2011 11:36 AM
Posted Tue Oct 18, 2011 11:38 AM
Posted Tue Oct 18, 2011 12:21 PM
Hells Yeah! Watching my wife get nailed to orgasm would be the "to die for" moment for me... I don't know about having her go off to another room in private with someone.. I think I would feel left out even if I was with the other guys wife.. Swinging has been a fantasy of mine, but it's something I'd want to do with my wife and not apart.. If that even makes sense.. lols
Anyhoo grats on the first experience! Hopefully it gets better for you as you become more and more comfortable.. Pangs of jealousy on occasion I imagine will always surface.
However, just like in all walks of life remember what you're all there for... In this case, "To Have a GOOD Time!"
Posted Tue Oct 18, 2011 02:31 PM
On the other hand; there is the socio-idium that we are taught growing up. That is that we should be social, and meet someone "special." We should the engage in wooing them, and marrying them. Then the 2 kids, dog, car, house; etcetera.
That aside; there can be both good, and bad consequences in considering this.
1 Have you TRUELY discussed every eventuality?
2 Do you TRUELY love your partner, and want to see them explore their sexuality, and become a more rounded person?
3 Are you fixated on the same sex being involved instead of yourself?
(What's good for the goose is good for the gander.)
4 Have you tried a three way with another male involved, instead of just another female?
(It might be a good idea to see how she reacts to someone else there; instead of splitting her attention between you and her female lover.)
Talk it through, and trust that when she tells you she loves you, and doesn't want to leave you that she is telling the truth.
She may just like a change of penis scenery. The same way you've thought about a different vagina scenery.
Be comfortable with yourself, and embrace the idea before doing this a second or third time. Make sure that all of your paranoia is abated in a trusting partner.
It can be fun as long as it's not a "habit."
Enjoy yourselves, but play safe,
Posted Thu Oct 20, 2011 08:11 AM
I think as long as it is just sex it is ok. I am divorced now (not due to swinging) but when I was married my wife and I had a threesome with one of my close friends (he was actually in our wedding). BIG MISTAKE. Because feelings develop. When feelings devolop between the 3rd person and one of the spouses it makes for big problems. Once jealousy rears it's ugly head the fun comes to a grinding halt. Communication with your wife is key. You MUST share your thoghts and feelings with your wife. Tell her that it was a little uncomfortable for you to see her fucking another guy. Don't let your feelings fester. No good will come of it if you "stuff" your feelings.