How to Show someone you Love them showing lover through a long distance relationship
Posted Thu Nov 03, 2011 08:26 PM
Posted Fri Nov 11, 2011 05:31 PM
With long distance, sending videos if you can't chat. Sending songs back and forth or poems too. Small gifts of special meaning, do not have to be extravagant. Trying to communicate every single day some how some way. And always telling them how much you love them and miss them.... Making the effort to let them know they are on your mind and in your heart. And also talking about the good and bad in life that you both might be going through. Don't always sugar-coat it, be honest and open...
Posted Fri Nov 11, 2011 07:24 PM
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This post has been edited by alwaysme: Tue Nov 15, 2011 01:27 AM
Posted Tue Nov 15, 2011 06:02 AM
Posted Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:05 PM
Like someone else said, it's all in the little things, in the details. Distance shouldn't really put a strain in your emotional relationship.
Sure, you want sex and cuddling and all that, but that's not love. You don't need to be under the same roof to give or get love, and that's the beauty of it.
Besides, when you do get to meet, things will be all the hotter because of the anticipation. Use it to your favor and be happy, mate!
Best of luck
Posted Tue Nov 22, 2011 04:59 AM
Don't ask me where I got this information, because i don't remember, but it is true. Women need some form of affection 28 times a day. So you are going to have to get creative being you don't live close. Affection is the #1 need of a woman. This doesn't mean a hug or kiss. those are forms of affection, but not the only forms. a favorite candy hidden for her find (or waiting in her mailbox) is affection. It doesn't have to be lavish or extravagant. It's little things that show you pay attention.
Now, since I want you to have the biggest chance of success in your relationship, the thing she needs to know is that a guys #1 need is to feel appreciated and respected.
Where men and women usually screw up is that try to meet the need of the other by fulfilling what they would need. like a woman would be extremely affectionate but not notice her husband washed out the trash can when he needs recognition for that. (just an example). and a husband may say thanks for mopping the floor and never notice his wife only wears solid color shirts and nothing with patterns. so when he does get her something she looks at him like he just grew a second head. or when her neck and shoulders are aching from mopping that floor she gets a thank you instead of her shoulders and neck massaged.
So for you in this long distance relationship.....pay attention and do little things that say this. make her feel loved in little ways all the time and she'll feel more loved than in one big notion at once.