I started a thread (http://www.sexforums.com/topic/100525-anxiety-about-first-time-sex/page__p__1178024&#entry1178024) a month or so ago regardng anxiety to having sex (for my first time) with my new girlfriend. The help I got was fantastic.
Anyway, to cut a long story short, we broke up on Saturday, for various reasons I shan't discuss. It was my self that did the breaking up. I do however want to stay in contact with her, and I have been getting the normal ignored texts. Talking to her on the net tonight she has really laid it into me, and to be quiet honest shot down my confidence with one bullet. The bullet was as follows:
Now, I don't try and let too much bother me but this was like a square on kick in my love spuds and has hurt quite a bit. Having lost my virginity and gaining confidence in the bedroom that statement has wiped it all out. I never expected to be any good my first time, and my ex has only had one previous partner so I can't say that she is that experienced, but for a Monday night this has really gotten me down.
Just had to let it out guys/gals