Posted Thu Nov 17, 2011 10:42 PM
First, the reason I sought out a forum about sex was to talk about certain things and get advice that I would otherwise not be able to talk about with friends or family because it would be too weird. I feel there is perhaps some help and advice I could use, although I think for the most part I'm pretty satisfied with my sex life. I can tell you all about who I am and what I do, and you may or may not think I'm weird and that's fine. Sometimes I feel that I may have a problem or a concern with my sex life, but most of the time I feel things are just fine. I'll let you decide.
What I'm about to say might sound odd or problematic to you, and if you have any advice or suggestions then feel free to tell them.
So I'm a heterosexual male, no question about that. I'm 23. Technically, I've only ever had sex once in my life. However, I've done lots of activities with many girls that I myself would consider sexual, even if it isn't technically sex. What I mean is, I'm into all kinds of fetishes and stuff like that, not normal porn. Normal porn doesn't do anything for me.
The best experience I ever had with a girl was a few years back. I was either 19 or 20, and I was a student at a school known for partying hard. The frat house that I used to go to party was where I met the girl who gave me the best time of my life. The way I approached her was so smooth and everything flowed so nicely. I took a very slow, unaggressive approach and gradually took it further and further and further. First we just started talking. I introduced myself, told her about my classes, asked her about her classes, just basic stuff. We both were drinking so that helped a lot. Eventually I became a little more touchy with her, starting by putting my arm around her. I don't remember how exactly it happened, but I led her down to the basement and that's when we started making out on a couch. It was the best, most satisfying sexual experience of my life, although we didn't technically have sex. I would desribe it as sex with clothes on. Some people call this dry humping, but I just prefer to call it sex. To me it felt like sex. Anyway, it was much better than the other time I had sex which wasn't nearly as good as this. First, her body was very, very shapely and sexy. She had thick, firm thighs, round, healthy breasts, curved hips, a nice ass, and a fairly pretty face with good hair. She was wearing tight jeans and a black sweater. I was wearing jeans and a black long sleeved shirt. We started kissing, rubbing each other, and we kept getting more and more aggressive. She was so hot. I remember panting, moaning, and getting more and more aroused every second. I loved rubbing her thighs and her breasts through her tight clothes. I loved kissing her pretty lips and tasting the flavory lipstick she had on. I was on top of her for a while, and then I let her get on top of me. I was loving it so much. We never even took our clothes off, we just kept rubbing our bodies against each other and kissing. It was extremely satisfying to me. I know it's weird, but I prefer keeping clothes on rather than taking them off. There's something about feeling a girl's body through tight clothes that is way more sexy to me than feeling her nude body. I can't explain why I feel that way, I just always have. I like looking at girls with tight clothes and sexy outfits a lot more the nude girls. I mean sure I like nude girls too but not nearly as much as girls with tight sexy outfits. Feeling her jeans and her shirt is so much sexier to me than feeling her nude body. I know it's weird but that's how it is with me. Although I never came in my pants, the feelings I got with this girl were much better than the feeling of cumming that I get from masturbation. As I said before, I had sex once with a different girl, and I didn't like it. It may have been just her that I didn't like, but, again, it's just that when I think of sex I think of keeping clothes on, and I never cared for porn or nudity. So, having the technical act of sex isn't as arousing to me as sex with clothes on. I know it's weird.
Anyways, after we were done making out I was laying down on the couch and I pulled her up to me to let her sit on my chest. I always fantacized about a girl sitting on top of me and now I got to live that fantasy. It felt so good having her sexy ass pushing down on my chest through her tight jeans. It was amazing. She sat on me for about a minute and then we kissed one more time and exchanged numbers, and after that night never heard from her again. I tried contacting her but she never replied. Oh well. It was an incredible night.
Anyways I have tons of other fetishes not having to do with sex. I'm very much into stuff like bondage, tickle torture, foot worship, wrestling, schoolgirl pins, facesitting, domination, humilation, forced boot licking, nylon feet worship, and more. I don't watch porn. So that's about it for now. I'm going to post this and let you respond, then I'll post more, but I've written a lot here, and it's time to end this post for now.
Posted Fri Nov 18, 2011 11:26 AM
Posted Fri Nov 18, 2011 03:07 PM
Read the first few lines and got bored...
Posted Fri Nov 18, 2011 04:42 PM
Posted Fri Nov 18, 2011 05:02 PM
Well, the simple answer is no.
As to your first post:
This is the place for you, trust me on that. Because of this site, I became a more open person. I no longer care what society as a whole thinks of my sexual habits. I know there are people out there just like me, and I can come here and vent out all the pent up sexual energy and not get judged for it.
Everyone has their "thing" that they like which may or may not be considered "normal". I don't know if you'll find another person here who will say "Yeah dude, I feel the same way". But that doesn't matter.
I like to be dominated, somewhat degraded, and "used". Even if it's pretend, but even better if it's somewhat real. I will go fuck a guy at midnight, and leave right after, just for that rush of knowing we used each other for sex. I don't have one night stands, so I have to somehow keep my "kink" alive. I will shape and mold my 'subjects' (partners) into what I want them to be - bossy and demanding. I like when he's selfish and takes his pleasure out on me. I like giving him a blowjob and going home horny. Is this normal? Probably not, but not everyone likes Anchovies on their pizza either.
Welcome to SF, by the way. Hope you stay Don't hesitate to PM me if you have any questions about the site or anything at all.
This post has been edited by ♪♫Lyrical♫♪: Fri Nov 18, 2011 05:03 PM
Posted Fri Nov 18, 2011 05:30 PM
Secondly, I don't know if I'm going to stay or not, because I'm not sure if I'll meet the kind of people I'd like to meet. I'd prefer a more elaborate fetish section that has more subforums underneath it, because fetishes are my thing.
There are tons of things that I masturbate too and that I'd like to do with a girl. Just talking about them online gets me horny and I've had cybersex before that was AMAZING. I didn't think it would be fun but it turned out to be fucking awesome. I just hope I find people who can relate to me and try to have fun together.
This post has been edited by PowerMetalGuy: Fri Nov 18, 2011 05:32 PM