problem with gf
Posted Sat May 12, 2007 08:42 AM
at first she was great in bed, experimental, everything was going amazing.
Then a short while ago, she started complaining that everytime I was inside her, it was hurting. In the beginning it was a minor problem, but apparently it gets worse and worse and she has to stop having sex sometimes. She went to a clinic to get checked and they said everything was fine. We can still have sex but its just instead of being able to go for a long time,she can only take about 15-20 minutes at a time. T
The other day, she complaiend the condom was dry, so after I lubed it up and put it back in her. To my horror, she started bleeding!!! It wasnt her period!
I have several theories into whats wrong:
-Shes still too tight; we went about 2 weeks without sex and after that it began hurting for the first time
-Shes allergic to latex/lube; when I finger her shes fine. I have polyurethane condoms I intend to try the next chance i get.
-My dick is crooked; i do admit it has a ever so gentle twist, id say its about 2 degrees off straight(not bent, but like, angled)
-She's cheating on me with a guy who has a massive cock(unlikely)
-She is cut somewhere on the inside and my dick is agitating it.
if someone has any insight into this, I'd much appreciate. It's killing me, because I can't stand the idea that she might be going through pain just for me and I wanna pleasure her not cause her pain.
Posted Sat May 12, 2007 12:37 PM
I dont think Slothguy's suggestion is going to work. If it is uncomfortable vaginally even painful anal will be more so.
Posted Sat May 12, 2007 01:01 PM
Posted Sat May 12, 2007 08:53 PM
Posted Sun May 13, 2007 02:43 PM
Posted Sun May 13, 2007 03:12 PM
We went to a gynocologist who sent us to a homiopathic Dr and got temp relief, but eventually she did have to get hormone therapy.
The blood thing would put the brakes on it for me though.
Stop look and get it checked.
The pill will not help with a dry vagina that's for sure, and oral stimulation doesn't help deep inside her either.
Posted Tue May 15, 2007 10:33 AM
Posted Tue May 15, 2007 11:36 AM
One thing that bears mentioning. I've know several women who's doctors told them 'nothing was wrong', who got second, and in one case fifth opinions before finding and correcting a medical problem. My experience is that doctors are generally clueless, I treat whatever they say as just a distracted humans best guess. If there is pain, there is a problem. Keep visiting new doctors until one of them pays attention long enough to solve it.
Posted Tue May 15, 2007 05:48 PM
its a possibility that its not even your dick at all.