What To Do She Loves It But No More Orgasm
Posted Tue Dec 06, 2011 12:34 AM
We are having a whirlwind relationship with lots of great sex. Once we realized that we loved each other, the love making was better than the sex.
She says I am "so good" at giving her tongue. She has reached orgasm several different ways from my licking and sucking her. My GF is in great shape, going to the gym 3 to 4 days every week. But, she has arthritis in her left hip and it has gotten to a point where she doesn't walk smoothly, can't spread her legs and has had excruciating pain while I licked her because her hip locked up. She decided to have a hip replacement since, now that she has me as her eager lover, she feels her hip is limiting her enjoyment in life.
We found positions in which she can feel comfortable while enjoying intercourse and oral sex. Since she can't spread her legs, we fuck with me on top, with her legs together and straight and bent back at her hips towards her head. She feels good in this position. It seemed strange for me at first. Though now, after trying many different sexual positions during a session, we always end our love making with me fucking her in her favorite position. We both really get off on the fact that I cum two to three times in succession while fucking. When we made love both of us would always cum. The thing that concerns me is that we do the things that she always loves doing, but she does not cum anymore. We both believe it is that her hip is bothering her more and, although she says she enjoys what I do, she does not cum. In that we both want each other to cum, it is disconcerting to me that nothing I do brings her to orgasm. I guess I should just accept the fact that she can't cum until after her surgery, but I so much want her to be able to have an orgasm.
I would appreciate you thoughts or comments on our situation and what I could do to help my beloved GF better enjoy our love making.
Thank you for you help.
Posted Tue Dec 06, 2011 12:56 AM
Good luck to her for her surgery.
Posted Tue Dec 06, 2011 03:05 AM
Posted Tue Dec 06, 2011 04:55 PM
Posted Tue Dec 06, 2011 10:17 PM
You're right. She has said that she loves the pleasure and doesn't need to orgasm to enjoy the love making. We are both looking forward to her post surgery abilities and our post surgery love making.
Thanks. I will keep the focus on her pleasure, which gives me pleasure.
Posted Tue Dec 06, 2011 10:21 PM
Good luck to her for her surgery.
She keeps saying its not me and she really loves what I do, even though she doesn't orgasm. We are looking forward to our post surgery love making. Thanks so much
Posted Tue Dec 06, 2011 10:28 PM
We have tried many things, including a vibrator. She says she loves what I do even though she doesn't cum. But, I guess, as a man, I'm focusing too much on the orgasm rather than on the pleasure. It may just be her fear of the pain that has happened during some of our sessions. We look forward to our post surgery fun. Thanks.
Posted Sun Dec 11, 2011 10:38 PM
We were out late partying. We came back to my GF's house intending to cuddle and fall asleep together. We started kissing and as we always do we caressed and rubbed each other. With her rubbing my very hard cock I rubbed her clit and special spot. She grabbed my hand and started rubbing herself with my hand. I took her lead and rubbed as she wanted. Given the advise given here and my discussions with my GF, I was just thinking about making her feel good, not her orgasm. Before I knew it she was very wet and told me she wanted to ride my face. I gladly helped her mount my face and started licking her pussy and clit. I let her move as she wanted over my tongue. She rode me hard and I could sense she was getting hotter. She continued riding my tongue. Then, as I remember she used when she was having great orgasms on me, she was riding hard, squeezed my head with her legs and let out moans of pleasure, as she had not for months. She beautifully moaned and arched hard five wonderful times.
She got off of me, gave me a great hug and kisses and said now it was my turn. I was so happy and satisfied that she had an orgasm that I almost didn't need to go inside her. However, since she wanted me to, I gladly entered her in our favorite position. With a great feeling that she just came as easily and strongly as she did, after months of not cumming, I was happy and very hard. I entered her pussy as she wanted and began pumping as we both like. Pretty quickly I felt the first of the 4 orgasms I would have. After my final shot of cum, deep in her pussy, we both felt satisfied, great, so much in LOVE and spent. We hugged and told each other how much we loved each other and fell asleep with me spooning her, as we both love.
Thank you for you thoughts and suggestions. It helped us to have one of the best love making session ever.