ladies choice of sexy or not so sexy clothing they wear
Posted Thu Dec 15, 2011 06:19 AM
What I am wondering is just what goes through the mind of women when they choose what type of clothes to buy or wear. I mean that given two pieces of similar clothing on the rack, what constitutes picking the more skimpy bikini, the shorter mini skirt, the more cleavage baring neckline, the tighter fitting jeans, more revealing mid drift. We all have heard the old saying that if she wears revealing clothes then she is "asking for it". When you choose a more revealing item of clothing do you do so to be a bit of a cock teaser? Do you choose the more revealing to draw more attention to yourself? When you are out and you re-adjust your mini skirt to allow more to show, what is going through your head at that time? Do you deliberately sit and hike up your skirt a bit so that a slight view of your panty is available to the curious eye? I would be really interested in getting the female perspective on this subject. Men, feel free to add yours as well.
Posted Thu Dec 15, 2011 06:21 AM
Posted Thu Dec 15, 2011 07:26 PM
anyway, when i dress skimpy, i dress it to attract guys that i want to attract. if another guy hits on me because of this, then fine, whatever. but he sure as hell better leave me alone if i show that i'm not interested. i usually just want to attract one guy, not all of them, but obviously the other guys around me are going to see what i'm wearing and if they're interested in it then i'm not going to hate them for it.
i do hike up my skirt or make sure my cleavage looks good (provided the setting is appropriate for this) when i'm trying to get a guy that i'm interested in, but yeah, it's not really to be a cock tease in general... it's because i want him.
Posted Fri Dec 16, 2011 06:25 AM
Just this summer, I was at a isolated section of beach and a lady there was wearing a bikini and looked super hot. Yes, I was ogling her behind my sunglasses alright but I never made any attempt to hit on her. After a while, I noticed that her top and bottom had become even more revealing....guess it was one of those adjustable types. Even before adjustments were done, I think this swimsuit was a size or two too small to emphasize her more than ample bosom and obviously trimmed if not bald pubic area. None the less she was certainly giving me an eye full and leaving very little to the imagination. After a while I was going to approach her and strike up some conversation when a fellow came along and hooked up with her. They were obviously in a relationship and although they got passionate together, I could see her glancing my way and giving me a seductive teasing smile. None the less I got a lot of mixed signals that day but kept to myself in any event. However, a different guy may have taken this completely different.
I was relaying this experience with some friends afterwards and one of them suggested that perhaps the whole thing was staged. Apparently, some folks out there get their SO to attract fellows, get the situation all heated up and then walk in, break things up and rescue their mate. Its kind of a kink with them I guess. From everything that happened that afternoon, I think this analogy is correct though I was totally unaware of this activity before hand.
Posted Sun Dec 18, 2011 11:11 PM
when i choose an outfit to wear my first thought is whats the occasion. clubbin with girls im more provocative. at the beach i am into kinis that make my chest/booty the cutest and allow for a good tan, sometimes thats skimpy but always secure. i dont wanna be runnin in the wata and lose my top. i dont generally do the cocktease but i will flash some leg or boost my cleavage to seem more appealin to a boy im interested in. of course i want him to want me...and maybe picture whats undah my clothin.
i agree...that phrase 'askin for it' is off puttin. tho not necessarily appropriate, i should be able to walk outside naked without anyone thinkin look at her, shes just beggin to get fucked.
Posted Mon Dec 19, 2011 10:42 PM
Possibly, the girl in the pleated miniskirt is hoping for a wild night of torrid sex. Unless she's given you an explicit invitation, you should not assume she wants it from you. Just the fact that she enjoys being sexual and showing off her body does not give anyone the right to touch her without her permission.
Of course, it's also possible that she just thinks the skirt will be easier to dance in. You can't really know, because women choose their clothes for all different reasons.
Posted Tue Dec 20, 2011 07:22 AM