POPPED HER CHERRY
Posted Tue Jun 12, 2007 03:37 PM
HOW DO I FACE THIS GUY?
Posted Tue Jun 12, 2007 04:10 PM
I think you should make it clear to him (preferably not verbally) that he's in the past.
Posted Tue Jun 12, 2007 09:47 PM
Posted Wed Jun 13, 2007 01:06 AM
Violence is never the answer. That will make things worse for you.
Posted Wed Jun 13, 2007 02:54 AM
Would certainly swipe the smirk of his face though! Only bad thing, it would probably piss your wife off. Why do you have to meet him anyway?
If its in a restaurant or something, wait until he goes to the toilet, go at the same time, stand next to him peeing and without looking at him, just say 'that thing your peeing out of, if you want to keep it attached stay the fuck away from my wife!'
Again, probably piss the wife off though.
Posted Wed Jun 13, 2007 03:23 AM
You don't have to worry. you can't allow yourself to be jealous of the past as you cannot change it. always look forward and if you do meet him, just be very pleasant and happy and smile. that will make him uneasy to start with and if he asks or tries to talk about sex with your partner, politely remind him - "thats my wife you're talking about" usually stops them dead.
I did it with my ex's new bloke (and we still live together atm)
Posted Wed Jun 13, 2007 10:46 AM
Posted Wed Jun 13, 2007 11:08 AM
Your wife probably has no intention of doing anything but I wouldn't be too happy if she was seeing him.
Posted Wed Jun 13, 2007 11:25 AM
Then steer clear of this dude, and if you find that somehow he is becoming part of you and your wives friend circle be very very wary.
otherwise just let it be.
small towns / villages all have people who have done things to other people.. its not uncommon, but regular contact with this bloke shouldnt really be encouraged.
Posted Tue Feb 03, 2009 10:54 PM
He's an old flame, we all have them. Some of us also have that guy/girl we go back to when we're lonely or feel like some attention/sex.
She's married now, to you and unless she has a history of CHEATING on her ex's with this ex, then I think it's safe to say it's going to be fine.
Personally, I wouldn't worry about it. You won her, she's your wife. Sucko to him for just being a fuck buddy for all those years. His loss.
Posted Wed Feb 04, 2009 05:26 AM
Posted Wed Feb 04, 2009 07:59 AM
i actually remember this one. not from the topic, but from big's err abigail's response
Posted Wed Feb 04, 2009 08:09 AM
HOW DO I FACE THIS GUY?
You don't - unless your wife is still talking to him, you move on and don't worry about it.
I had a similar internal struggle when I first began dating my now fiancee, and you'll lose a lot of sleep and grow a lot of grey hairs over nothing, my friend.
Be happy that you're the best she's ever had. Now if she's still talking to the jerk, then you might have to do something about it, but remember these three words:
Cool, Calm, Collected. You'll always come out on top.
Posted Mon Feb 09, 2009 05:13 PM
its hard for me to think of the girls y bloke has slept with but i cant change it and i think he is with me now so dont worry.