Blokes chatting up lesbians
Posted Mon Jan 30, 2012 01:15 PM
Posted Tue Jan 31, 2012 05:39 AM
Posted Tue Feb 14, 2012 05:19 AM
that a woman is a lesbian before you hit on them.
Posted Tue Feb 14, 2012 06:20 AM
It's dicotimous because it's quite frequent that gay men can hang out with straight women with no such hang ups, but very rare (in my personal experience) is it when a lesbian and a straight guy can have a similar relationship. Just an observation by the resident forum douche-bag....
This post has been edited by ilyushin: Tue Feb 14, 2012 06:20 AM
Posted Wed Feb 15, 2012 12:34 AM
Sorry mistyped the first response.
seems like an odd choice for an opening line to me
Posted Wed Feb 15, 2012 12:52 AM
My old roommate is a lesbian. Every-time a guy hit on her she said " it's because of guys like you, I switched teams"...Boom ,ego shot down....lol
Posted Fri Mar 02, 2012 02:55 AM
Isn't when your "chatting someone up" the idea is to bed them ? I always thought there is a difference to being chatted up than having a friendly conversation.
I was not aware of that distinction...I've chatted up guys before, but didn't have any inclination to play ball with the beef bat. My bad. Didn't know.
But I have worked with lesbians at my place of employment and met many through friends and they (the ones I knew) seemed kind of esoteric.
Meh....thier loss, I'm a real kick in the pants to chat with.
Posted Thu Mar 15, 2012 10:37 AM
Posted Thu May 03, 2012 04:30 AM
i have relatives that are lesbians, and at my fathers funeral they came along, butch, gee i think that was a word that went out years ago, but one of them is 'butch' one of the guys tried to just have a conversation, well, he was told to clear off a bit quick
Posted Mon Oct 22, 2012 08:11 PM
Posted Tue Oct 23, 2012 03:25 AM
How can you tell...
Fine, that's not always easy. But do you hit on a woman in the first few seconds after seeing her, or do you wait and try to see what she's up to, watch her move, watch who she is with, simply admire?
I guess most men hit up on women in bars, assuming that when a woman is in a bar, she must be out looking for the D. And then they fail to notice when she is with other people - even when she buys five drinks in one go at the bar! - or assume, if it is all women, that they are on a woman's night out.
I've been hit up on many times, I'm not so shy that I don't go into bars alone. I've been hit up on when sitting with my lover and then shouted down and abused because I didn't reply. Had this idiot been watching he'd have seen me using sign - I'm mute - and seen that I was closer than close with my lover.
How can you tell? Observation. By not rushing in before they've had time to take their coat off. by being sensible and sensitive (broads like that!).